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Originally posted by james.hendrickson View Post
Frankly, I'd like to know your thoughts on that question Kork. In saving-sherpa's case, the dude works at being frugal. Yeah he was lucky to be born in the USA, but other than that, it looks like his wealth is mostly his doing.
The problem with my question is that a person's response is going to be driven by their preconceptions. (1) If you see injustice everywhere, you'll always point out how successful people had this or that advantage or fundamental 'privilege'. (2) If you believe that people drive their own success, you'll point out how any advantages didn't matter, or are broadly available, or not under the control of an individual/their parents/etc. While yes there is a grey area in the middle, I don't find many people who truly reside there.
Frankly, I think more like the second group... While I recognize that many do have various advantages/disadvantages in their lives, there's also alot of neutral space where those factors don't really matter. I do believe that everyone has the capability to change their personal situation as a fundamental element to success. Maybe not dramatically, and not overnight, or maybe it even takes a couple generations of hard work. So I'm generally one to credit a person's success to the individual. Success requires many factors: opportunity, ambition & intellect to take advantage of that opportunity, effort & focus to stick it out, and so on. I don't think it's fair to discredit a person's success simply because they had different opportunities. They still have to seize it & follow through."Praestantia per minutus" ... "Acta non verba"
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Originally posted by kork13 View Post
I don't want to try to recreate my previous post.... I posted shortly after ua_guy, then later deleted it. If it's recoverable somehow on the admin side, you're welcome to resurrect it.
The problem with my question is that a person's response is going to be driven by their preconceptions. (1) If you see injustice everywhere, you'll always point out how successful people had this or that advantage or fundamental 'privilege'. (2) If you believe that people drive their own success, you'll point out how any advantages didn't matter, or are broadly available, or not under the control of an individual/their parents/etc. While yes there is a grey area in the middle, I don't find many people who truly reside there.
Frankly, I think more like the second group... While I recognize that many do have various advantages/disadvantages in their lives, there's also alot of neutral space where those factors don't really matter. I do believe that everyone has the capability to change their personal situation as a fundamental element to success. Maybe not dramatically, and not overnight, or maybe it even takes a couple generations of hard work. So I'm generally one to credit a person's success to the individual. Success requires many factors: opportunity, ambition & intellect to take advantage of that opportunity, effort & focus to stick it out, and so on. I don't think it's fair to discredit a person's success simply because they had different opportunities. They still have to seize it & follow through.
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Kork, I did see your first response and chose to think about it and respond later, but then it wasn't there. I paused when I made my first post in this thread, asking, should I say that, or not, and I probably made the wrong choice...I've no problem admitting that. It's a complex topic and not something we're all going to see eye-to-eye on.
I come from privilege and see where I've been handed things for free. I also have some really big struggles and have worked with the under-privileged for most of my career, so I have a fairly good grip on the reality of many Americans.
My last thought on this is... I have no doubt this guy found his drive and worked hard for what he has. He was also the recipient of something our military does which appeals to young people with no way out of their hometown.Last edited by ua_guy; 07-22-2021, 11:31 AM.
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Originally posted by kork13 View PostThe problem with my question is that a person's response is going to be driven by their preconceptions. (1) If you see injustice everywhere, you'll always point out how successful people had this or that advantage or fundamental 'privilege'. (2) If you believe that people drive their own success, you'll point out how any advantages didn't matter, or are broadly available, or not under the control of an individual/their parents/etc. While yes there is a grey area in the middle, I don't find many people who truly reside there.Money is better than poverty, if only for financial reasons
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Originally posted by kork13 View PostI will say that this was my immediate thought even without looking around on his site -- sure, he may be "financially independent", but is he happy & fulfilled & truly free? I certainly wouldn't enjoy living in a shoebox or wildly restricting my grocery budget simply for the sake of being able to survive on a given sum of money. I think that's a big mistake that many FIRE folks get wrapped up in -- if you're going to retire early, make it something to dream about. Sure it feels great to 'fire your boss' ..... but are you running toward something you crave, or running away from something you dislike? Often it seems that too many of the FIRE crowd are doing the latter, rather than focus on the former.
It's interesting that the biggest trumpeters are those who live on the least and make everyone else feel like they should live on so much less. Before I used to think that we could live simply. I"ve found that to be untrue. I mean I want more money to retire and live on now. I don't want to live modestly. I will admit I have gotten used to a much to affluent lifestyle and I'd rather have my DH work a few more years than make do with what we have. But I'm pretty sure that on a FIRE group or board I'd be torn apart for saying that. It would be very fast I think I would judged as not frugal enough. but is it fair? Or right? And that righteousness is where the FIRE movement has a problem. It says it's for everyone but in someways it feels like it's only for people who are willing to live modestly.
That being said inherent advantages are present. And it takes generations to get rid of it. My cousin's husband comes from "money". His family had enough money to pay for private boarding high school, private college, wedding, down payment. His grandparents helped his parents the same way. So inherently he had a lot more and will always have more. But can he help his kids? Can his parents really help his children the way his grandparents did and could? I don't think so and that's where the problem will start to crop up.
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