Given our income (for where we live), it's hard to both max out our 401Ks and IRAs and still be able to continue saving a large amount for the down payment on a home. Quite frankly, we may need to scale back to not maxing out the 401K this year to really put that money in the down payment fund instead.
But I feel really down about this decision. I guess my question really is a request for reassurance that it's OK to NOT max out one's retirement a/c and still be OK in our golden years (and not have my boy starve after our time). A home with a large backyard is becoming a critical need, esp as he ages and gets more and more active and a little harder to manage in our small condo.
We will be buying in an area with a lower COL and maybe able to max back the retirement investments once we are in a house that works for our son. But that will mean giving up 2 years of investment growth... I don't know, I'm just really overwhelmed and my brain has shut down from my neurons burning out from just thinking and thinking and thinking about this.
Help!
But I feel really down about this decision. I guess my question really is a request for reassurance that it's OK to NOT max out one's retirement a/c and still be OK in our golden years (and not have my boy starve after our time). A home with a large backyard is becoming a critical need, esp as he ages and gets more and more active and a little harder to manage in our small condo.
We will be buying in an area with a lower COL and maybe able to max back the retirement investments once we are in a house that works for our son. But that will mean giving up 2 years of investment growth... I don't know, I'm just really overwhelmed and my brain has shut down from my neurons burning out from just thinking and thinking and thinking about this.
Help!
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