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10 Things You Should Never Do at a Wedding

May 17, 2024 by Tamila McDonald
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Weddings are beautiful and joyous occasions meant to celebrate the union of two people. However, there are certain behaviors and actions that can detract from the festivities. Here are ten things you should never do at a wedding to ensure that you remain respectful and considerate.

1. Wear White

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Wearing white to a wedding is a major faux pas, as this color is traditionally reserved for the bride. Even if your outfit is a different shade of white, it’s best to steer clear to avoid any potential offense or overshadowing the bride. Opt for other colors that fit the dress code and theme of the wedding. This shows respect for the bride and ensures you blend harmoniously with the other guests.

2. Arrive Late

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Arriving late to a wedding ceremony can be incredibly disruptive. It not only distracts other guests but can also be a major inconvenience for the couple and the officiant. Plan your journey in advance and aim to arrive at least 15 minutes early. If you do happen to arrive late, wait for a suitable break in the ceremony before finding your seat to minimize disruption.

3. Drink Too Much

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While it’s common to enjoy a drink or two at a wedding, overindulging can lead to embarrassing or even harmful situations. You don’t want to be remembered for causing a scene or offending other guests. Pace yourself and know your limits. Drinking responsibly ensures that you enjoy the celebration while maintaining your composure and respect for the event.

4. Propose

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Proposing at someone else’s wedding is a huge etiquette blunder. The couple’s wedding day is a celebration of their love, and making a proposal shifts the focus away from them. If you’re planning to propose, choose a different day that will be special for both you and your partner. Respect the couple’s moment and let them have their day without any unexpected surprises.

5. Speak During the Ceremony

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Talking during the wedding ceremony is incredibly disrespectful. It can distract the couple, the officiant, and other guests from the important vows being exchanged. Save conversations for the reception. This shows respect for the significance of the ceremony and allows everyone to focus on the couple’s special moment.

6. Post Photos Before the Couple

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In the age of social media, it’s tempting to post pictures immediately. However, sharing photos before the couple does can spoil their special announcement. Wait until the couple has posted their own photos or given the go-ahead. This respects their wishes and ensures they have the first opportunity to share their special day with the world.

7. Ignore the Dress Code

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Weddings often come with a specific dress code. Ignoring this can make you stand out in a negative way and shows a lack of respect for the couple’s wishes. Make sure to check the invitation for any dress code details and adhere to them. If in doubt, it’s always better to dress more formally than too casually.

8. Hog the Photographer

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While it’s natural to want a nice photo from the wedding, monopolizing the photographer’s time can prevent them from capturing other important moments. Be mindful of the photographer’s role and allow them to do their job. There will be plenty of opportunities to take personal photos without interfering with professional photography.

9. Make a Scene

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Drama and arguments have no place at a wedding. Causing a scene can ruin the atmosphere and detract from the couple’s happiness. If you have issues with someone at the wedding, handle them discreetly and away from the main event. Keeping the peace ensures that the focus remains on the couple and their celebration.

10. Leave Too Early

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Leaving the wedding too early can be seen as disrespectful, especially if you don’t inform the hosts. It can also disrupt the flow of the event if many guests start leaving early. If you need to leave early, let the couple or a close family member know in advance. This shows respect for their planning and allows them to manage the event accordingly.

Be a Thoughtful Guest

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Attending a wedding comes with responsibilities to respect and celebrate the couple’s special day. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can ensure that you contribute positively to the event. Remember, weddings are about celebrating love and unity, so your behavior should reflect that spirit.

What faux pas have you seen at weddings that you feel people should be aware of? Let us know in the comments. We’d love to hear from you.

Tamila McDonald
Tamila McDonald

Tamila McDonald is a U.S. Army veteran with 20 years of service, including five years as a military financial advisor. After retiring from the Army, she spent eight years as an AFCPE-certified personal financial advisor for wounded warriors and their families. Now she writes about personal finance and benefits programs for numerous financial websites.

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