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    It's turning out to be a very spendy month for us, which doesn't happen often. All choice, not necessity. Thought I'd share how one decision can lead to another and how even for a cautious spender, I let my guard down when I got excited about the plan.

    It started with us renting a campervan in Montana in July. DH and I spent a week off grid camping, enjoying nature and each others company with no cell service. Got us talking about how we might like to have our own camping setup. Because I'm a researcher, I've spent the last couple months weighing the pros and cons of a drivable vs towable, features, lengths, towing capacities, and costs. Since we ran into an issue in Glacier National Park where our 25' van was too long to drive through the park due to the sharp turns through the mountains, plus the obstacle of maintenance on another driving vehicle, we ultimately decided a towable we could put down was the way we wanted to go. As we started to look at what those options looked like, we decided we had some non-negotiables, such as my 6'1 DH needed to be able to stand up inside and also lay in the bed without his feet hanging off the end lol. This meant we were going to need something bigger than what could be towed with our current Jeep and we'd need a truck.

    After we'd decided we'd need a truck, but before we started shopping, our brother-in-law called to say he was selling his truck - he owns his own business, wanted to upgrade his commuter truck, and was willing to sell it at whatever the dealer stated the trade in value was. As soon as he told us he'd let it go for $8k, half the KBB value, it was a no brainer.

    Next it occurred to me that even if we picked a shorter RV, it was going to be a tight fit in our driveway and our drive was old, cracking and unlevel. If we were going to avoid paying storage fees, we'd need to have the pad that runs along the side of the garage redone... and if we were going to do that, we might as well extend it so the RV would fit more comfortably and we could get another vehicle in front of it to clear up congestion in front of the garage. No one likes playing the car shuffle when you're trying to get out the door in the morning. So I had that quoted ($5,900) and the guy recommended that we do the main drive while we were at it so they could run the rebar across the whole area and make it more durable. The price to do in front of the garage was another $6,800 if we did it separately but he'd cut a deal if we did it at once. Made some adjustments to the layout and length and negotiated him down to $10k cash to do the whole thing.

    At this point, even though I have the cash, I'm panicking a little because I don't like spending money or when my cash reserves drop that much so I start looking at where I can pull from. I had a pile of company stock that was awarded to me as RSUs, half of which had vested, that I'd just been sitting on because I didn't know what to do with it. Sold 70 shares at a 25% gain from when they were awarded to the tune of $6k and elected to have the next batch that vests Nov. 1 cashed out which will be another $4k. Company bought me a new driveway!

    Still shopping around for the perfect RV. I started out with a budget of $20k thinking we wanted something relatively new and to buy from a dealer so we could get the benefit of the crash course in RV ownership they provide, but after extensive searching and the mounting costs, we're going to see an older model of one I like on Saturday from a private party seller. It's listed at $12,500 and if we decide to move forward we're going to hire an independent inspector to give it a onceover and teach us all the things we need to know about it. The inspector will cost around $700 but feels well worth it.

    Lastly, we've been getting along fine as a 3 driver, 2 vehicle household since DH sold his personal car last year. He has a work truck and most of the time for nights and weekends, he and I do fine sharing while DD has her own vehicle since she splits time between our house and her dads. To further offset the spending, once we get the RV home, we'll look at selling the jeep which should bring in around $8k, fully offsetting the cost of the truck purchase.

    All in all spending approximately $31k, offset by $18k in stocks and property for a net deficit of $13,200. Overall biggest takeaway=I'm kind of proud of myself for loosening the purse strings a bit making an investment in something we'll enjoy and get good use out of + it's nice to see how the decades of saving and diligent smart spending has enabled us to make this kind of decision without losing sleep over it or taking on monthly payments.

    Phew that was longer than I thought it would be. What bigger non-essential purchases have you all made with little hesitation once you felt comfortable your retirement and necessities were on track?

  • #2
    Originally posted by riverwed070707 View Post
    What bigger non-essential purchases have you all made with little hesitation once you felt comfortable your retirement and necessities were on track?
    Congrats on the spending.

    2025 has been our biggest spend year ever. We came in right under $40,000 for the kitchen remodel. We've been in our house since 1994 and this is the first time we've remodeled anything. We've made little updates here and there but this was the first true to-the-studs remodel. We had the money. We use our kitchen a lot. And it was long past time to do it.
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    • #3
      Nice work! And, congrats on embarking on an RV adventure. That's not a cheap hobby, but it sounds like you've already got the hang of it, not having to pay storage costs, which is great!
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      • #4
        Originally posted by disneysteve View Post

        Congrats on the spending.

        2025 has been our biggest spend year ever. We came in right under $40,000 for the kitchen remodel. We've been in our house since 1994 and this is the first time we've remodeled anything. We've made little updates here and there but this was the first true to-the-studs remodel. We had the money. We use our kitchen a lot. And it was long past time to do it.
        That's a fun one! It's so nice to have a functional kitchen that you get to design exactly how you plan to use it.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by ua_guy View Post
          Nice work! And, congrats on embarking on an RV adventure. That's not a cheap hobby, but it sounds like you've already got the hang of it, not having to pay storage costs, which is great!
          Definitely not a cheap hobby, but we came up with some good use cases that helped me feel confident we wouldn't buy it and not use it enough. DH is a tournament fisherman and what happens now on tournament weekends is he is usually either getting up at 3 am to get there in time for sun up or he leaves late the night before and gets a cheap hotel with his fishing partner. They have about 10 tournaments a year + the national tournament which is a week long, usually 6-10 hours away. I tag along once in a while but not often because its a hassle to find a place that's dog friendly and because I feel "stuck" at the hotel while they're fishing all day. We love the idea of going out Thursday or Friday and making a weekend of it even if they only fish one day, and in a park/camping setting feels more enjoyable than a hotel. I work remote and most camp grounds these days have wifi, which feels like a nice way to take advantage of my location flexibility without us having to spend time apart.

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          • #6
            Congrats and I'm glad you are relaxing the spending muscles. I would caution that you may find yourself getting a more expensive rv than planned if it isn't in the shape you hope. I also wonder if that affects how expensive a truck you will be buying or finding (no experience on either but just saying that how it always goes).

            You think you are getting X, but then get Y. That leads to what you thought about Z (truck) not being sufficient. I sometimes think it's better to start a hobby like this that you may enjoy and plan on doing during retirement to do it before even if it costs more because you get a taste of what youare missing. But at the same time you also get an idea of what you are getting into financially.
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            • #7
              Originally posted by LivingAlmostLarge View Post
              Congrats and I'm glad you are relaxing the spending muscles. I would caution that you may find yourself getting a more expensive rv than planned if it isn't in the shape you hope. I also wonder if that affects how expensive a truck you will be buying or finding (no experience on either but just saying that how it always goes).

              You think you are getting X, but then get Y. That leads to what you thought about Z (truck) not being sufficient. I sometimes think it's better to start a hobby like this that you may enjoy and plan on doing during retirement to do it before even if it costs more because you get a taste of what youare missing. But at the same time you also get an idea of what you are getting into financially.
              The struggle is real! I'm definitely trying to keep a mindset of not needing to get every feature we like in our first RV and remembering that shorter/lighter will not only be easier to haul, it will save money and give us more camping options. We can always upgrade later if we decide long term RVing is part of our plans. If I could custom design my dream RV, I'd actually optimize the outside to have a great outdoor kitchen and accessible outdoor organized storage since the whole point is spending more time outside. I don't understand RVs that have things like kitchen islands and big dinettes. I just want the inside to have a bed I don't have to crawl into with a place to set my water at night and enough room to get dressed without touching the walls

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              • #8
                Update! We found the camper. I was very tempted into blowing the budget with a 2 year old model the previous owners had done a ton of upgrades to. If it had met our length and weight requirements, I might have caved and spent the $28k, well over what I set out to spend. But I kept it together and we landed on a 2017 with a hideous interior but great layout and ticked all our non-negotiables. It was priced at $15k and they offered right off the bat to do it for $11k to move it off the lot before winter, making it less expensive than the private party sale alternative I was leaning toward. So we got the reassurance of a dealership having inspected the systems, a place we can feel comfortable going if maintenance issues come up, came in well under budget, plus they offer free winterizing and de-winterization every year for all their customers. Picking up our truck on Friday and the camper next Monday!

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                • #9
                  Sounds like it's all coming together you got an RV and you got a $8k truck. Besides i wouldn't worry about the ugly rv. You enjoy this trial you'll get a better one i predict within 24 months. You hate it? Then you are only out $11k
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