My story here on Savings Advice started similar to yours, but we were in a lot worse shape. I think this was back in 2013. At the time, I was making a lot of money and spending even more. I joined to ask a question about whether I should pay off our car loans with my bonus. Seemed like a fairly straight forward question to me, but everyone on here kept asking other questions about my financial situation. That really irritated me. But they kept after me and I finally started to reveal our total financial picture. They offered advice that to me seemed pretty harsh. I am making $300k / year, why should I be concerned about how much I pay for cable, or how many cars I have? I pushed back hard and probably seemed like a bit of an arse. Luckily, they stuck with me and got me to read the book The Millionaire Next Door. My wife read it, too and that changed our lives. I would dare say, it saved our lives.
Thanks to that epiphany, we were able to go from owing a lot of money with no savings to being able to retire last year. Although we spend a lot less now, we are so much happier.
You're in much better shape than we were. But I get the sense that you have a similar relationship with money that we had. We should be able to spend on nice things. But once you get out of debt and approach money like The Millionaire Next Door, I can almost guarantee you will be happier and will want for nothing.
So, please stick with posting here. I can already tell you are more open minded to change than I was. Keep that up and listen to the advice you get and you will be a millionaire next door in no time.
Thanks to that epiphany, we were able to go from owing a lot of money with no savings to being able to retire last year. Although we spend a lot less now, we are so much happier.
You're in much better shape than we were. But I get the sense that you have a similar relationship with money that we had. We should be able to spend on nice things. But once you get out of debt and approach money like The Millionaire Next Door, I can almost guarantee you will be happier and will want for nothing.
So, please stick with posting here. I can already tell you are more open minded to change than I was. Keep that up and listen to the advice you get and you will be a millionaire next door in no time.

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