So I've a friend who has rented for 16 years in the area. They always wanted to buy but never could. It always was just beyond their reach. When prices were lower they made less. They make more but housing has gone gangbusters in the past decade. The truth is that they have super cheap rent $1750/month but to buy would be triple that if not more. So they are getting a stellar deal.
But I really think that they just can't afford to live where they live. It would be one thing if they could buy a house and were saving the excess money say $3k/month because they like renting and it wasn't a big deal. But they can't afford even double. I told her since she got a job to save her income in a separate account for a downpayment. The problem is that they also don't have a downpayment so they could do 3% FHA loan but at the end of the day they still need to afford the payment.
I pointed out that it's fine to rent, but in 20 years at 65 (they are 45) are they okay having not owned anything? She said the problem is they like where they live and quoted YOLO. Do you give up liking where you live and buy a home somewhere you don't like because it's affordable? I personally say yes. Because you can't afford to buy where you rent maybe you should rent where you can afford to buy? I don't know, but I feel in my gut that living somewhere 30 years and renting even at a below market rate you do not end up ahead of someone who bought a house.
The friend mentioned being 45 and has maybe $100k in her retirement and her husband the same. They haven't been stashing away money left and right and living super frugally FIRE. They live modestly but still have CC debt annually they work on paying off and stuff. The normal living. But if they didn't have cheap rent it would be even worse. If they were renting even market rate where she lives it would not be a feasible budget.
My suggestion was to maybe buy in the next year or two and then do the 3% DP and move to somewhere they can afford.
But I really think that they just can't afford to live where they live. It would be one thing if they could buy a house and were saving the excess money say $3k/month because they like renting and it wasn't a big deal. But they can't afford even double. I told her since she got a job to save her income in a separate account for a downpayment. The problem is that they also don't have a downpayment so they could do 3% FHA loan but at the end of the day they still need to afford the payment.
I pointed out that it's fine to rent, but in 20 years at 65 (they are 45) are they okay having not owned anything? She said the problem is they like where they live and quoted YOLO. Do you give up liking where you live and buy a home somewhere you don't like because it's affordable? I personally say yes. Because you can't afford to buy where you rent maybe you should rent where you can afford to buy? I don't know, but I feel in my gut that living somewhere 30 years and renting even at a below market rate you do not end up ahead of someone who bought a house.
The friend mentioned being 45 and has maybe $100k in her retirement and her husband the same. They haven't been stashing away money left and right and living super frugally FIRE. They live modestly but still have CC debt annually they work on paying off and stuff. The normal living. But if they didn't have cheap rent it would be even worse. If they were renting even market rate where she lives it would not be a feasible budget.
My suggestion was to maybe buy in the next year or two and then do the 3% DP and move to somewhere they can afford.
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