Singuy, back to discussion about your unwillingness to spend that distresses wife. Is it really a 4 generation cultural model?
You've not given much in the way of details or specific examples but I wonder if she would be happier and less complaining if there was a line item for entertainment/date night each month for example. These would be special occasions, joining friends or not for dress up events, celebrating a cultural holiday, birthday, anniversary, completion of a project, whatever 'tag' she likes. If it it's suits better bring it down a notch but make it bi weekly, for a concert and dinner at a better restaurant [not yet visited] or catered at home.
Does wife believe your wardrobe needs upgrading? Are you willing to spend a bit more to have better made apparel that fits and flatters? Make it easy on yourself by hiring a stylist tasked with finding you two complete business wear and one casual outfit that hilights your best features. Be gentle on yourself, try Nordstroms 1st. Men likewise benefit from an occasional manicure/pedicure.
If your wife is distressed by your response to her purchases, that's not about money, it about control.
You've not given much in the way of details or specific examples but I wonder if she would be happier and less complaining if there was a line item for entertainment/date night each month for example. These would be special occasions, joining friends or not for dress up events, celebrating a cultural holiday, birthday, anniversary, completion of a project, whatever 'tag' she likes. If it it's suits better bring it down a notch but make it bi weekly, for a concert and dinner at a better restaurant [not yet visited] or catered at home.
Does wife believe your wardrobe needs upgrading? Are you willing to spend a bit more to have better made apparel that fits and flatters? Make it easy on yourself by hiring a stylist tasked with finding you two complete business wear and one casual outfit that hilights your best features. Be gentle on yourself, try Nordstroms 1st. Men likewise benefit from an occasional manicure/pedicure.
If your wife is distressed by your response to her purchases, that's not about money, it about control.
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