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21 Days to Positive Money Habits

By , December 6th, 2016 | 7 Comments »

It is an accepted part of self-help wisdom that it takes twenty-one days to develop a new habit and make it stick. This has been found to be true in weight loss, smoking cessation, reducing alcohol consumption, and many other regimens designed to create positive habits. It can also be applied to your finances. If you are having trouble getting motivated to create a better financial life, a dedicated effort over just twenty-one days can create better money management habits.

Of course, it’s not a miracle cure. If you’re in deep financial trouble you certainly won’t be able to solve all your problems or pay all your debt in twenty-one days. That’s not the point. What you’re trying to do over these twenty-one days is to lay the foundation for tackling your money problems over the longer haul. You use these twenty-one days to create better financial habits so you can get out of trouble and avoid getting in trouble next time. If you’re doing nothing about your finances, these twenty-one days can get you started on the basics.

Below are twenty-one things you can do to create better money management habits. Each one is small enough to be done in a day. (Depending on your situation it may require a long day, but it can be done in a day.) Do one thing per day (you don’t have to do them in order) and you should be on your way to better money management habits. If you can go for three weeks without falling back into your old patterns, you stand a better chance of coming out on the other side with new, ingrained, money management habits.

1. Figure out exactly how much you owe. This sounds like a “duh,” but you can’t make a plan without knowing exactly how much you owe and to whom. It’s time to come clean. List all loans, lines of credit, HELOC’s, credit cards, “X months same as cash” offers, 0% financing, etc. List everything, no matter how small, including that $10 you owe your coworker for lunch last week. If you don’t know what you owe, you can’t create a plan to become wealthier. Figure it out.

2. Figure out exactly how much you have. Tally up all your assets, including cash, 401K’s, IRA’s, stocks/bonds, your change jar, and the money in your mattress. If possible, include an approximate value for your house, if you own one. Don’t count “expected” money like tax refunds or inheritances until you have them. Expected money is not money you have. Many people have no idea how much they have (or don’t have) and I don’t think you can create any sort of financial plan without knowing exactly how much you have.

3. Figure out your net worth. Subtract the number you discovered in number one from the number you came up with in number two (assets minus liabilities). This is your net worth. It’s a handy number to know. If it’s positive, you’re doing some things right and you want to keep heading in that direction. If it’s negative, you’ve got problems and need to work on them ASAP. It’s not a number that matters to anyone but you, but it is a good indicator of where you’ve been and where you’re heading.

4. Know how much you bring home every month. This sounds like another big “duh,” but I’m always surprised by how many people don’t know this. They know how much they earn, their salary (some people with multiple jobs or self-employment don’t even know that, but that’s another story), but not how much they actually bring home each month. Figure out what you actually bring home after taxes, insurance, flex spending, 401K and any other deductions. You can also include interest you earn on savings, as long as withdrawing that interest won’t cost you penalties. This is the amount you have to work with every month to spend, save, and pay down debt.

5. Get your credit reports from all three credit bureaus. You can get one free per year from each bureau at AnnualCreditReport.com. Check for inaccuracies, debts you’ve forgotten about (if you find any, adjust your numbers in #’s 1, 2 and 3), and anything else that doesn’t seem right. Figure out a plan of attack for resolving any errors and cleaning up your report. A clean report makes it easier to qualify for car loans and mortgages, if you need them.

6. Identify your spending drains. Sit down and figure out where your money leaks are. We all have them. Some people like to eat out, some people collect things, some people can’t part with their morning coffee. A lot of times these spending drains are almost unconscious. Pull them out into the open and try to figure out what about this item is a problem for you. Now that you’re aware of it, work on controlling it.

7. Don’t spend anything for one day. Go just one day and spend nothing. Don’t buy coffee, don’t go to the drive-thru, don’t stop at Target for “just one thing.” Don’t even buy gas. See how good it feels to go without spending for a day. Now try to add more no-spend days to your life.

8. Figure out your fees. Pull out your bank and credit card statements and looks at the fees you’re being charged for overdrafts, ATM withdrawals, late fees, account maintenance fees, etc. Figure out a way to eliminate these fees-call the bank and negotiate, stop doing whatever it is that’s incurring the fees, or switch banks if they won’t work with you.

9. Organize your bill paying. Organization is not a bag or shoe box stuffed with unpaid bills. Create a system so that when a bill comes in, it goes into a holding area until it’s paid (it’s preferable if you can pay it when it comes in, but I realize that for many that’s not possible). Put your bill paying supplies in one place to minimize the aggravation. Then create a system to keep records of your payments. Get a filing cabinet or file box to keep the receipts. If possible, automate as many bill payments as you can so you don’t have to worry about it. Maybe you need to make a spreadsheet listing all bills and their due dates so you can check them off as you go. Clear the sheet at the end of the month and begin again next month.

10. Start keeping your receipts for purchases. I know many people who buy something and simply toss the receipt. Store them in an envelope, labeled by month. Keep receipts at least until the return period has passed for the item. More and more stores are requiring receipts for returns. Not having the receipt could cost you. You also want to keep receipts until the purchases have cleared your bank account. Twice I’ve had to go to the bank and dispute a debit charge because what was deducted from my account was not what was on my receipt. Without those receipts, I would have had a harder time proving my case.

11. Get a shredder and use it. Shred anything with personal or financial information on it to reduce your risk of identity theft. Shredders have really come down in price and they are worth the peace of mind. Right now Amazon is selling a great one for under 30 bucks, which is really inexpensive.

12. Balance your checkbook. Even if you use online banking or a money management program, reconcile your bank statement with your checkbook every month. Banks make mistakes or you might enter something incorrectly. Make sure you know that your accounts are correct every month.

13. Examine your insurance policies. Know what your homeowners’, health, life, and car insurance policies cover and how much you’re paying for that coverage. If you think you’re underinsured, schedule a talk with your broker ASAP to set things right.

14. Check to make sure you’re not paying more than you have to for insurance. Once you know what you have and how much insurance you need, shop around to get the best price. What you already have may be the best rate going, but you won’t know that until you shop around. Put this on your calendar and recheck rates each year.

15. Make a grocery list and go shopping. Take the time to learn how to inventory your pantry and identify your needs. Write it all down on a list and then go shopping. Buy only what is on the list and avoid off-list temptations.

16. Start tracking your spending. Get a notebook and write down every penny you spend today. This will give you an idea of where your money is going. Keep adding to this journal every day. At the end of a month, you’ll have a clear idea of what spending areas you need to address.

17. Create a budget. Once you know what you have coming in and going out every month, you can sit down and create a budget to better manage that flow. It doesn’t have to be set in stone, but it does need to be realistic enough to give you a guide to follow as you work through your financial issues.

18. Read something about finance. Education is a powerful tool when it comes to your finances. Today read one article or part of a book about a financial topic that interests you. Maybe you want to know more about investing or debt repayment strategy. Find something relevant to you and learn something new. Do this again another day and keep learning.

19. Start contributing to your retirement. Use your budget and your newfound knowledge about what you earn to figure out an amount you can set aside for retirement. Whether it’s in an IRA, a 401K or a SEP, you need to be contributing something to retirement. Start with whatever you can afford and increase it gradually. Don’t count on the government to take care of you in your old age. There are lots of great companies like prosper.com or loyal3.com which will help you invest even small amounts of money like $10 or $25.

20. Start saving money for emergencies, cars, vacations, etc. Open a savings account (or add to your existing one) and put something in there every month or pay period. Even a little bit is better than nothing. The more you have saved, the better able you’ll be to weather down times or pay cash for things you need. Increase the amount you save as you are able. Many people fine money challenges like the 365 day money challenge or the 52 week money challenge a great way to start saving small amount of money a day. Click here for a nice list of money challenges to try.

21. Take care of others. Make certain your loved ones are taken care of if something should happen to you. Make sure you have a will and a living will so that your wishes are known. Assign a power of attorney. Set up a trust if necessary. Get disability and life insurance to replace your income if you die or can’t work. Yes, these things cost money but the cost is a fraction of the trouble that will ensue if something happens to you and you are unprepared. Review these things each year to make certain no changes are required.

At the end of these twenty-one days, hopefully you’ve solved some of your financial problems and have a plan to deal with the rest. You’re on your way to better money management habits. If you start to backslide, review these twenty-one days to motivate you to keep going in your new, positive direction.

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  • Gina says:

    i really liked this article.
    in th past i would control spending by only spending on saturdays then leaving my check book, cash and purse at home. during the week, i do work 10 minutes from work in case of an emergency

    also i love the part of writing down your assests and what you owe, it is like putting together a financial report card. Then you are better able to see the places that you need to improve and to make your yearly financal goals

    plus the always learning more is a big one for me, Where should i look for these articles to read daily? i have started with the money magazine, now this website is ther more options that are free?

    anyways loved the article

  • Meghan says:

    The library is a great free place to go get free advice…look up some of Dave Ramsey’s and David Bach’s books. They have great tips/advice

  • Minimum Wage says:

    Dunno what good getting another copy of my credit report would do when I cannot resolve my credit problems on a minimum wage income.

    Dunno how to start contributing to my retirement wither.

  • xinecho says:

    i want to know that if the account for retirement and emergencies should be put separately.

  • pfadvice says:

    A retirement account and an emergency account are separate – they should not be the same.

  • Harry says:

    Retirement savings!


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