My mom and dad are 69 and 90 and have been married like 32 years. My dad had 3 kids, alimony, and 2 mortgages. My mom had me 1 kid and a mortgage. My dad adopted me at 10. Anyway my mom is feeling guilty and I can tell. They have about $1m saved in IRA, roth IRA, and taxable accounts. I can't tell you the split. They have SS for 2, medicare, and a pension. They are fine.
Right now as it stands my mom inherits everything upon my dad's death. I know that she is starting to feel guilty that they do not plan on leaving anything to the 3 other kids and me from dad's estate. She is worried she doens't have enough, I think she should be worried. But now because she's feeling gulity she's saying things like I want to leave it to them upon my death. I said you might outlive them, they are 62 and 63. I pointed out if they feel resentful of getting nothing upon dad's death getting something upon my mom's death will not change anything.
So what to do? I don't have a clue.
Right now as it stands my mom inherits everything upon my dad's death. I know that she is starting to feel guilty that they do not plan on leaving anything to the 3 other kids and me from dad's estate. She is worried she doens't have enough, I think she should be worried. But now because she's feeling gulity she's saying things like I want to leave it to them upon my death. I said you might outlive them, they are 62 and 63. I pointed out if they feel resentful of getting nothing upon dad's death getting something upon my mom's death will not change anything.
So what to do? I don't have a clue.
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