Wondering if anyone else has had this problem or concern with other family members. I'm from a big family and all us siblings are in our 50's now, and out of all of us, I'm the only one that seems to have any money or lack of any money problems. I'm certainly not rich, just middle to upper middle class but the rest of the family lives pay check to pay check with low paying jobs.
None of us ever went to a 4 year college because of family finances but I was lucky enough to get a higher paying job and haven't had the same financial problems as the rest. I'm lucky enough to have the nice house, cars, vacations, etc.... but find it difficult sometimes to be around the rest of the other family members when talking about money matters or family vacations.
No one treats us differently (at least in front of us) but I know there's a certain amount of resentment. As we get older and they have little or no retirement, I know things will only get more difficult between us.
Has anyone else had to deal with this type of family problem? How do we stay close without causing friction. We have never acted differently towards them or even talked about our financial situation.
None of us ever went to a 4 year college because of family finances but I was lucky enough to get a higher paying job and haven't had the same financial problems as the rest. I'm lucky enough to have the nice house, cars, vacations, etc.... but find it difficult sometimes to be around the rest of the other family members when talking about money matters or family vacations.
No one treats us differently (at least in front of us) but I know there's a certain amount of resentment. As we get older and they have little or no retirement, I know things will only get more difficult between us.
Has anyone else had to deal with this type of family problem? How do we stay close without causing friction. We have never acted differently towards them or even talked about our financial situation.
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