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  • Inheritance frustrations

    Definitely in the "First World problem" category but as I try to wrap up the last few pieces of the inheritance from my cousin, I'm running into a roadblock.

    I inherited two individual stocks. I couldn't do anything with them until the probate period ended, which occurred on October 12. Now I'm working to get them transferred into my name so that I can then move them into our brokerage account.

    I contacted Vanguard and they walked me through the process but when I explained that I hold the paper stock certificates but that they don't represent the actual number of shares currently held due to past stock splits, they said I need to contact each company and get updated documentation of the actual number of shares.

    I called shareholder services and then sent me the necessary paperwork to re-title the accounts. Those forms need Medallion Signature Guarantees. No problem. My bank does those. I made an appointment and went over there a little while ago. The rep checked all of the paperwork and said there were a couple of other things I'd need.

    He gave me the number of the MSG team and advised me to call them as they are the experts on these matters. I just called them and one thing they need is the court order naming me executor of the estate. No problem. I have that. But it has to be dated within the past 60 days. Nope. The order was issued on 6/28/21 when we started the probate process. So now I have to contact the estate lawyer and have him go to the court and get an updated order with a current date (which I'm sure is going to cost me something). Once I have that, I should hopefully be set to proceed with the MSG process.

    They definitely don't make the process easy.

    My advice to all? Make sure that for every account you possibly can, name a beneficiary or title the account TOD (transfer on death) to the person you want to inherit it. That will avoid your heirs having to deal with all of this after you're gone.
    Steve

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  • #2
    A couple of years ago when I had my will sit up, I had wanted to list my savings account, 401K and IRA in it. The lawyer's advice was not to do that but set up a beneficiary for each of the accounts. One trip to the bank for the savings account, and maybe 15 minutes on line for each of the retirement accounts and it was done.

    I really am surprised we are not required to set these up by default when opening an account.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by myrdale View Post
      I really am surprised we are not required to set these up by default when opening an account.
      Ya really I agree! My kids are in their early to mid twenties, this isn't on their radar. I'm constantly telling them go back in and set up beneficiaries. Oldest DD has life insurance through work, just today as I was helping her with her benefit selection, I said go do the beneficiary NOW! These kids have no clue that is even a thing, why isn't it a mandatory pop up field. You don't know what you don't know!!

      Sorry for all your troubles Steve, I know handling an estate is no fun task.

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      • #4
        Setting up beneficiaries isn't always simple. In our case, we only have one kid and she'll get everything when we die, so it's straightforward. But if you have multiple kids, or maybe you've divorced and remarried and have your own kids and step kids, it can get complicated. Not so easy to say, "Johnny gets this account and Suzy gets that one".

        Honestly, handling the estate really hasn't been that difficult. I've heard so many horror stories but my process has been surprisingly easy. I think it helped tremendously that I have an excellent attorney (well, he was my cousin's attorney and I'm using him). His assistance has been worth every penny I've paid him. Also, the fact that I was the executor and sole beneficiary also made it quite easy as there was nobody else involved.
        Steve

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        * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
        * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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        • #5
          It's a bit weird all these beneficiaries and some rules are strange. We will have an account open forever at a bank because there were 3 beneficiaries the siblings all foreign who have to come to the us to sign off and close account for $1000. Sigh. The guy on the phone has laughed at my DH (the executor) and said we'll have that forever.
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