Hi, been lurking for a few months but finally signed up tonight...seeking advice
I recently turned 25 and got slammed with nearly $4k in unexpected expenses, and I was not prepared at all for it. I don't have a savings account...just checking, and it's bleak. I read bits and pieces of Dave Ramsay's book about 6 months ago, then moved and got into the winter flow and stopped reading. My parents have been bailing me out of some tight financial situations since I've graduated from college and I want it to stop. I appreciate it, and it's not hard for them, but I'm 25 and goshdarnit I want to "cut the cord" and be on my own. Sidenote: My parents didn't have frivolous money when I was growing up. They dove into the Ramsay world, and I'd say are a "success" story.
My work, by nature, is not super stable. I work mid-Nov through early April and mid-May through the end of October. Yep, I live and work in a ski town. I work for the resort in the winter and teach summer activities in the summer. Off-seasons are tough, as work dries up but also nice as no one is around so it's less tempting to go to the bars, restaurants, etc. It's relaxing and occasionally part-time work can be found...this year I have some work. Next winter (this was my first full-time winter here), I also plan on picking up a night job.
Financial stats:
Credit Card Debt (Wells Fargo): $3140 @ 16.45% (zoinks!) (currently pay the minimum $70/month...never late, never missed one)
Student Loan (Wells Fargo): $2668 remaining @ 6.24% (pay the minimum $50/month...never late, never missed)
Federal Student Loan: $36110 remaining @ 6.55% (on graduated repayment; currently $252/month, set to increase to I believe $3xx. in November)
WF CC statement says if I continue only paying the minimum (without using it), it'll be 18 years before it's paid. If I up my payments to $111/month, it'll be 3 years. This is the highest interest debt and should be paid down first...right?
As of May 1, my rent will be a steady $550/month (yes I have roommates). That includes all utilities, trash, internet, etc. We won't have cable/satellite.
My phone is still on my parents family plan, and will stay there as it's cheaper for everyone, but would be about $20 a month I think.
Fortunately, I live in an area with a great free bus system and super bike friendly, so the most I paid for gas for my truck in a month from Dec to April was around $45.
Average about $200/month in groceries. $150 restaurants, incl bars.
I'll have around $900 in my checking account on May 1 (after paying May rent). It's depressing to look at everyday. I know my spending habits need to change, especially regarding restaurants and eating out. Luckily summer affords more opportunity to camp/grill for cheap w/ friends instead of needing to go to an indoor restaurant to eat & socialize b/c of frigid temps. As well, I'm more active in the summer after work....meaning less down time, less snacking, less spending. I am in the process of setting a budget. I have been doing the 52-week savings plan and am all up-to-date on it.
My lift access passes for winter & summer are covered by my work, which probably saves about $1500/year. My truck is paid off. My "fun gear" (bikes, skis, etc.) could use an upgrade but it's just not possible right now.
I have $718 sitting in a retirement account from the first job I had out of college. I researched withdrawing it today because I'm in a pinch, and found there would be a 30% tax penalty to withdraw it (20% federal withholding, 10% add'l income tax fee), costing me $215. My mom mentioned going to Wells Fargo to open an IRA...I can do a rollover at no fee for the entire amount. From my limited research on the WF site and Navy Fed Credit Union, where I also have an empty account, I should start small due to my current financial situation with something like the WF Way2Save savings account. They call it one of their "Destination IRAs", the other being a CD. Downfalls? Good/bad experiences anyone here has had? Other things you recommend?
I want to get out of debt. I want to have the 6-month savings cushion. I want to be independent from my parents. And if sometime before next winter I can round up a new ski set-up, that would be a big bonus...but I'm willing to put that off.
Thanks for reading this rather lengthy blog, and mega thanks in advance for any advice given.

I recently turned 25 and got slammed with nearly $4k in unexpected expenses, and I was not prepared at all for it. I don't have a savings account...just checking, and it's bleak. I read bits and pieces of Dave Ramsay's book about 6 months ago, then moved and got into the winter flow and stopped reading. My parents have been bailing me out of some tight financial situations since I've graduated from college and I want it to stop. I appreciate it, and it's not hard for them, but I'm 25 and goshdarnit I want to "cut the cord" and be on my own. Sidenote: My parents didn't have frivolous money when I was growing up. They dove into the Ramsay world, and I'd say are a "success" story.
My work, by nature, is not super stable. I work mid-Nov through early April and mid-May through the end of October. Yep, I live and work in a ski town. I work for the resort in the winter and teach summer activities in the summer. Off-seasons are tough, as work dries up but also nice as no one is around so it's less tempting to go to the bars, restaurants, etc. It's relaxing and occasionally part-time work can be found...this year I have some work. Next winter (this was my first full-time winter here), I also plan on picking up a night job.
Financial stats:
Credit Card Debt (Wells Fargo): $3140 @ 16.45% (zoinks!) (currently pay the minimum $70/month...never late, never missed one)
Student Loan (Wells Fargo): $2668 remaining @ 6.24% (pay the minimum $50/month...never late, never missed)
Federal Student Loan: $36110 remaining @ 6.55% (on graduated repayment; currently $252/month, set to increase to I believe $3xx. in November)
WF CC statement says if I continue only paying the minimum (without using it), it'll be 18 years before it's paid. If I up my payments to $111/month, it'll be 3 years. This is the highest interest debt and should be paid down first...right?
As of May 1, my rent will be a steady $550/month (yes I have roommates). That includes all utilities, trash, internet, etc. We won't have cable/satellite.
My phone is still on my parents family plan, and will stay there as it's cheaper for everyone, but would be about $20 a month I think.
Fortunately, I live in an area with a great free bus system and super bike friendly, so the most I paid for gas for my truck in a month from Dec to April was around $45.
Average about $200/month in groceries. $150 restaurants, incl bars.
I'll have around $900 in my checking account on May 1 (after paying May rent). It's depressing to look at everyday. I know my spending habits need to change, especially regarding restaurants and eating out. Luckily summer affords more opportunity to camp/grill for cheap w/ friends instead of needing to go to an indoor restaurant to eat & socialize b/c of frigid temps. As well, I'm more active in the summer after work....meaning less down time, less snacking, less spending. I am in the process of setting a budget. I have been doing the 52-week savings plan and am all up-to-date on it.
My lift access passes for winter & summer are covered by my work, which probably saves about $1500/year. My truck is paid off. My "fun gear" (bikes, skis, etc.) could use an upgrade but it's just not possible right now.
I have $718 sitting in a retirement account from the first job I had out of college. I researched withdrawing it today because I'm in a pinch, and found there would be a 30% tax penalty to withdraw it (20% federal withholding, 10% add'l income tax fee), costing me $215. My mom mentioned going to Wells Fargo to open an IRA...I can do a rollover at no fee for the entire amount. From my limited research on the WF site and Navy Fed Credit Union, where I also have an empty account, I should start small due to my current financial situation with something like the WF Way2Save savings account. They call it one of their "Destination IRAs", the other being a CD. Downfalls? Good/bad experiences anyone here has had? Other things you recommend?
I want to get out of debt. I want to have the 6-month savings cushion. I want to be independent from my parents. And if sometime before next winter I can round up a new ski set-up, that would be a big bonus...but I'm willing to put that off.
Thanks for reading this rather lengthy blog, and mega thanks in advance for any advice given.
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