Bought and closed on the house in November 2009.
Bought a ton of furniture and hosted our first family gathering in December 2009.
Paid off all the credit card bills in January 2010 from all the purchases made for the house and Christmas.
Also made our first electric and oil bill and mortgage payment (with additional payment of $500 towards principal) in January 2010.
So, things are settling down now. And DH throws me a curve ball last night by suggesting that we drastically accelerate our mortgage payments. I had already planned on pre-paying the mortgage with $500 additional each month which would cut the 30 year loan by about 10 years if we are able to keep it up. We had about a surplus of about $300 a month of income over expenses and still some "fat" in the budget, especially since a lot of the budgeted expenses (i.e. transportation) hadn't started yet. (Won't until late summer.)
At first he suggested that we just throw the $35K we had originally budgeted for home furnishings/renovation directly at the mortgage balance since we furnished 85% of the house already. He figured we could hold off on any other purchases until we built up enough reserves again. We spent around $20K in the last 2 months furnishing the house, the cash assets I listed below of $123K are still available because we had inflows from tax return refunds ($3K), consulting fees ($5K) and gifts ($9K) to offset those expenses.
I really didn't feel comfortable with that because it was a psychological "cushion" in addition to our emergency fund. I "moved" the $20K we spent on home furnishings from the home reserves to our emergency funds part of our budget.
We talked about it. Instead, we are compromising and going to add $1000 a month towards our mortgage payments until it "hurts" before cutting back to maybe $500 again. Maybe when the true cost of living full time in the house kicks in. So, at a minimum for at least the next 6-7 months, no problem. After that period, we will re-evaluate. However, we will try to make that extra $1000 payment as long as possible. If our actual expenses go over our income BECAUSE of that additional $1000 a month, we figure it will come from the $20K we "moved" it over to our EF.
Does this even make sense? Or should we do as DH suggests and just throw the entire $35K at the mortgage or maybe just the $20K we used already?
I thought I had all our numbers and budget all worked out and DH decides to re-work everything. I think the thought of having this huge financial burden for the next 30 years is scaring him.
By paying an extra $1000 a month, it will be paid off in less than 15 years.
I just don't know if it is sustainable. But if we were to throw extra money at the mortgage, now would be the time to do it when our expenses are lower and when we would save the most in interest...
Is there another option, I hadn't thought of? WWYD based on our numbers below? Thanks.
The following budget is a cut & paste from an earlier post that I had put together BEFORE we purchased our house in November with the red as corrections/additions:
Monthly Income (Gross/Net):
DH: $7,983.30 / $4804.97 (just got raise, will get another one 2/10)
net is now $5003.35 bc no more NYC taxes withheld for DH
ME: $2,700.00/ $2150.00 (I didn't get around to amending my withholdings yet)
Combo:$10,683.30 / $6,954.97 $7153.35
Not counting DH's bonuses that typically range from $5-$10K, my consulting fees that range from $5-$7K, interest ($4K+ in 2008 - will be lot less bc of rates and because we are applying most to DP) and dividend income ($3K+ in 2008). Annual figures.
Deductions from DH's pay already include Med (for him only - kids and I are covered through my company), FSA ($1200/yr), Transit ($130), and 15% to 401K ($276.35/wk).
Est. Monthly Expenses:
House:
Mortgage ($350K) 30 fixed P&I $2000 $1852.23 4.875%
RE Taxes ($13200) $1100 $1112.41
HO Ins $ 100 $93.75
Oil Heat ($118/mth per seller) $ 135 $300more in the winter months
Wood Stove Pellets ($250/ton) $ 25 Stew Leonards has it for $320/ton but we haven't started using the pellet stove yet. Oil use should go down when we do.
Electric ($178/mth per seller) $ 190 193 (estimated level billing)
Pool Maint $ 50
Lawn Maint $ 50
$3650 $3676.39
Household:
Food $ 450
Cable/Internet/Phone $ 125 (will live w/o as long as possible)
Clothes $ 100
Home Furn/Maint $ 200
Gifts/Fun $$ $ 75
$ 950 (Didn't actually get to add this up but it was about right on target. Although food was more $$ over the holidays for parties, it was offset by not having cable/internet/phone service yet)
Transportation:
Train tkt above pay deduction $ 100
Train St. Parking ($380/yr) $ 32
Car Ins ($100 now) $ 200 (will need 2nd car)
Car Maint $ 25
Gas $ 183
$ 540 (Haven't gotten 2nd car or paying for train/parking yet)
Other:
Tithing/Charity $ 710
DVC Maint ($2020) will rent out $ 170
Travel Fund (no travel for few yrs) $ 0
Kid's Activities ($2K) $ 170
Life Ins $ 200
Savings $ 400
$ 1650
Total Expenses: $ 6790 $6816.39
Surplus between I & E $ 164.97 $336.96
Notes:
Will try to fully fund IRA's in April with bonuses.
Assets:
Cash: (after DP and closing costs)
EF (10 months) $ 68K + $20 (from Home reserves) = $88K
Cash to purchase 2nd Car $ 20K
Reserve for Home Furn & Impvmt $ 35K (will be using around $2-3K/mth to furnish and improve the house) - $20K (bought furniture but used unaccounted inflow of funds) = $15K
$123K
IRAs & 401K $124K
Invest.Port (Stk & MF) $165K
Zero debt (Well now it is mortgage balance of $349,070)
DH & I both have shares in RE investments we wouldn't count because they will not be sold to raise money.
Bought a ton of furniture and hosted our first family gathering in December 2009.
Paid off all the credit card bills in January 2010 from all the purchases made for the house and Christmas.

Also made our first electric and oil bill and mortgage payment (with additional payment of $500 towards principal) in January 2010.
So, things are settling down now. And DH throws me a curve ball last night by suggesting that we drastically accelerate our mortgage payments. I had already planned on pre-paying the mortgage with $500 additional each month which would cut the 30 year loan by about 10 years if we are able to keep it up. We had about a surplus of about $300 a month of income over expenses and still some "fat" in the budget, especially since a lot of the budgeted expenses (i.e. transportation) hadn't started yet. (Won't until late summer.)
At first he suggested that we just throw the $35K we had originally budgeted for home furnishings/renovation directly at the mortgage balance since we furnished 85% of the house already. He figured we could hold off on any other purchases until we built up enough reserves again. We spent around $20K in the last 2 months furnishing the house, the cash assets I listed below of $123K are still available because we had inflows from tax return refunds ($3K), consulting fees ($5K) and gifts ($9K) to offset those expenses.
I really didn't feel comfortable with that because it was a psychological "cushion" in addition to our emergency fund. I "moved" the $20K we spent on home furnishings from the home reserves to our emergency funds part of our budget.

We talked about it. Instead, we are compromising and going to add $1000 a month towards our mortgage payments until it "hurts" before cutting back to maybe $500 again. Maybe when the true cost of living full time in the house kicks in. So, at a minimum for at least the next 6-7 months, no problem. After that period, we will re-evaluate. However, we will try to make that extra $1000 payment as long as possible. If our actual expenses go over our income BECAUSE of that additional $1000 a month, we figure it will come from the $20K we "moved" it over to our EF.
Does this even make sense? Or should we do as DH suggests and just throw the entire $35K at the mortgage or maybe just the $20K we used already?
I thought I had all our numbers and budget all worked out and DH decides to re-work everything. I think the thought of having this huge financial burden for the next 30 years is scaring him.

I just don't know if it is sustainable. But if we were to throw extra money at the mortgage, now would be the time to do it when our expenses are lower and when we would save the most in interest...
Is there another option, I hadn't thought of? WWYD based on our numbers below? Thanks.
The following budget is a cut & paste from an earlier post that I had put together BEFORE we purchased our house in November with the red as corrections/additions:
Monthly Income (Gross/Net):
DH: $7,983.30 / $4804.97 (just got raise, will get another one 2/10)
net is now $5003.35 bc no more NYC taxes withheld for DH
ME: $2,700.00/ $2150.00 (I didn't get around to amending my withholdings yet)

Combo:$10,683.30 / $6,954.97 $7153.35
Not counting DH's bonuses that typically range from $5-$10K, my consulting fees that range from $5-$7K, interest ($4K+ in 2008 - will be lot less bc of rates and because we are applying most to DP) and dividend income ($3K+ in 2008). Annual figures.
Deductions from DH's pay already include Med (for him only - kids and I are covered through my company), FSA ($1200/yr), Transit ($130), and 15% to 401K ($276.35/wk).
Est. Monthly Expenses:
House:
Mortgage ($350K) 30 fixed P&I $2000 $1852.23 4.875%
RE Taxes ($13200) $1100 $1112.41
HO Ins $ 100 $93.75
Oil Heat ($118/mth per seller) $ 135 $300more in the winter months
Wood Stove Pellets ($250/ton) $ 25 Stew Leonards has it for $320/ton but we haven't started using the pellet stove yet. Oil use should go down when we do.
Electric ($178/mth per seller) $ 190 193 (estimated level billing)
Pool Maint $ 50
Lawn Maint $ 50
$3650 $3676.39
Household:
Food $ 450
Cable/Internet/Phone $ 125 (will live w/o as long as possible)
Clothes $ 100
Home Furn/Maint $ 200
Gifts/Fun $$ $ 75
$ 950 (Didn't actually get to add this up but it was about right on target. Although food was more $$ over the holidays for parties, it was offset by not having cable/internet/phone service yet)
Transportation:
Train tkt above pay deduction $ 100
Train St. Parking ($380/yr) $ 32
Car Ins ($100 now) $ 200 (will need 2nd car)
Car Maint $ 25
Gas $ 183
$ 540 (Haven't gotten 2nd car or paying for train/parking yet)
Other:
Tithing/Charity $ 710
DVC Maint ($2020) will rent out $ 170
Travel Fund (no travel for few yrs) $ 0
Kid's Activities ($2K) $ 170
Life Ins $ 200
Savings $ 400
$ 1650
Total Expenses: $ 6790 $6816.39
Surplus between I & E $ 164.97 $336.96
Notes:
Will try to fully fund IRA's in April with bonuses.
Assets:
Cash: (after DP and closing costs)
EF (10 months) $ 68K + $20 (from Home reserves) = $88K
Cash to purchase 2nd Car $ 20K
Reserve for Home Furn & Impvmt $ 35K (will be using around $2-3K/mth to furnish and improve the house) - $20K (bought furniture but used unaccounted inflow of funds) = $15K
$123K
IRAs & 401K $124K
Invest.Port (Stk & MF) $165K
Zero debt (Well now it is mortgage balance of $349,070)
DH & I both have shares in RE investments we wouldn't count because they will not be sold to raise money.
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