Thanks for the reply Scanner, it's well appreciated.
I really didn't anticipate dying! That would put a damper on my day! We do need to think this out some more in detail. Thanks for the advise. In my mind, though, we are "as if" married. It's really just a question of putting energy by priority and planning the actual celebration hasn't been a priority. Should I die, I'd want her to get my half. I do have to check if it's ditto for her (we really didn't look at this). Should we break up, which we have discussed, she would buy me out. She has the means for it and this is what we agreed to. Should she feel more comfortable matching my cash down and being 50/50 on the debt, that is fine too. This is her choice and so far she wants to clear her half so that is what I'm going with. It may be more simple to simply go 50/50 on the cash down, however this is not great for her as she doesn't want to invest in the market and she would pay more interest on her half of the loan than she would gain interest on CDs. I don't agree with the thinking, but she has a particular familly situation and her familly is very conservative on how they invest and it has brushed up on her. How she invests however is little of my concern.
With regards to the financials of the downpayment/mortgage payment discussion (which is the advise I am seeking), I understand that markets don't return 10% a year, every year. This is where my dilemma comes in and the reason for this thread. Being somewhat risk adverse, I am more inclined to take a guaranteed 5% after tax return (saved interest) than to try to beat that by investing in the market in a tax deffered account. I suspect that I am being too conservative however and wanted feedback from people here. Basically, can I really anticipate 8%-9% average long term returns on the market (or what would be a realistic anticipated return). This would help me decide whether I'm out to lunch taking the 5% saved interest over anticipated market returns. Alot of the answers so far have provided me basic feedback on what people think and I appreciate that.
I really didn't anticipate dying! That would put a damper on my day! We do need to think this out some more in detail. Thanks for the advise. In my mind, though, we are "as if" married. It's really just a question of putting energy by priority and planning the actual celebration hasn't been a priority. Should I die, I'd want her to get my half. I do have to check if it's ditto for her (we really didn't look at this). Should we break up, which we have discussed, she would buy me out. She has the means for it and this is what we agreed to. Should she feel more comfortable matching my cash down and being 50/50 on the debt, that is fine too. This is her choice and so far she wants to clear her half so that is what I'm going with. It may be more simple to simply go 50/50 on the cash down, however this is not great for her as she doesn't want to invest in the market and she would pay more interest on her half of the loan than she would gain interest on CDs. I don't agree with the thinking, but she has a particular familly situation and her familly is very conservative on how they invest and it has brushed up on her. How she invests however is little of my concern.
With regards to the financials of the downpayment/mortgage payment discussion (which is the advise I am seeking), I understand that markets don't return 10% a year, every year. This is where my dilemma comes in and the reason for this thread. Being somewhat risk adverse, I am more inclined to take a guaranteed 5% after tax return (saved interest) than to try to beat that by investing in the market in a tax deffered account. I suspect that I am being too conservative however and wanted feedback from people here. Basically, can I really anticipate 8%-9% average long term returns on the market (or what would be a realistic anticipated return). This would help me decide whether I'm out to lunch taking the 5% saved interest over anticipated market returns. Alot of the answers so far have provided me basic feedback on what people think and I appreciate that.
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