When I was on mom's message boards, advice that used to make me cringe was "go to the ER" as a strategy that applied to every medical problem. I though that these women are either uninsured, or not very smart. Why overburden already crowded ERs and wait for hours when a more efficient way is to go to your Dr. or a specialist first?
My son was in the ER once in his life, when grandma closed the metal door on his baby finger. My husband was once with the food poisoning so severe he became delusional from high fever, and I do not remember being in the ER in my adult life. Because I have insurance and internist, specialists, and pediatrician, and when I need care, I get it.
I thought that this is a normal way responsible person deals with illness.
Now I am discovering that I might have been wrong about this.
When we moved to DC area (Arlington -- a county with one of the highest median incomes in the nation) I assumed that my access to healthcare would be similarly good. After all, it is an area with high concentration of money and power, and I would assume attract a lot of medical professionals, same as NYC. But my experience so far is very different.
My husband is having a prolonged stomach issue (not acute, but bad enough and unending for days). He needs to see gastroenterologist.
He had some issues before, but did not deem them bad enough to see anyone. Now it is different.
Ok, so I researched one with good credentials, called her office. March! First appointment is in March. Ok than, time to lower standards. I'll take anyone in the practice. January. but he need care now, not January.
I made dozens of calls, different hospitals, gastroenterology groups, etc. As far away as 1 hr away John Hopkins in Maryland. Asked to be placed on waitlists for cancelations, explained the situation... Advice I got - if you want to see a specialist, you have to go through the ER. That's your best bet. One place pretty much said this was our only option.
Now this is not an imminent life/death or a critical care situation that I naively though ER was for. It is not about needing care in hours. But definitely not weeks/months! But there is basically no access to a specialist without ER.
Prior to this, I got sick and my daughter was a little sick too - I wanted to get her checked out and started to call recommended pediatricians and physicians (I got recommendations in advance from local moms and thought I was prepared), I got same response - no available appointments, go to the ER. I did not think we were "ER sick".
But so far, "you should go to the ER" is a response I've been getting from medical establishments themselves. Granted, not from Docs, but from their reception staff, as I do not have access to Docs anymore.
This seems crazy! Not efficient, plus ER charges are astronomical and unpredictable, than they will also classify you as inpatient when you finally do see specialist, plus you will spend there forever with your "mild pain that lasts close to 5 days" and will be last priority.
I cannot believe that this is what access to care is like here.
When someone from baby forum complained once that she could not get first OB appointment until she was almost 6 month pregnant and was quite distressed about it, I though that was horrific and assumed she was in some poor rural underserved area with crappy welfare insurance or something like that. Even assuming these factors, I thought that situation was horrific and unacceptable.
I had no idea that in one of the richest counties near a large city one can have that much difficulty. And I am insured, educated, reasonably high income, and white, living in a major metropolitan area. How much worse is it for those who are not? How much desperation is out there?
Now I am starting to think that overcrowded ERs are NOT the fault of the patients who are too impatient or stupid to just go to the DR with non-emergency issues, that they are not flooded by the uninsured, but that many are there because it is their only gateway to get care, and it is not due to their lack of responsibility.
Interested in your perspective, especially Disneysteve.
Personally, we are now contemplating a crazy option of flying back to NYC to get medical treatment. It is insane, but may be quicker and cheaper than the ER route and is an option to someone who has resources to do that.
My son was in the ER once in his life, when grandma closed the metal door on his baby finger. My husband was once with the food poisoning so severe he became delusional from high fever, and I do not remember being in the ER in my adult life. Because I have insurance and internist, specialists, and pediatrician, and when I need care, I get it.
I thought that this is a normal way responsible person deals with illness.
Now I am discovering that I might have been wrong about this.
When we moved to DC area (Arlington -- a county with one of the highest median incomes in the nation) I assumed that my access to healthcare would be similarly good. After all, it is an area with high concentration of money and power, and I would assume attract a lot of medical professionals, same as NYC. But my experience so far is very different.
My husband is having a prolonged stomach issue (not acute, but bad enough and unending for days). He needs to see gastroenterologist.
He had some issues before, but did not deem them bad enough to see anyone. Now it is different.
Ok, so I researched one with good credentials, called her office. March! First appointment is in March. Ok than, time to lower standards. I'll take anyone in the practice. January. but he need care now, not January.
I made dozens of calls, different hospitals, gastroenterology groups, etc. As far away as 1 hr away John Hopkins in Maryland. Asked to be placed on waitlists for cancelations, explained the situation... Advice I got - if you want to see a specialist, you have to go through the ER. That's your best bet. One place pretty much said this was our only option.
Now this is not an imminent life/death or a critical care situation that I naively though ER was for. It is not about needing care in hours. But definitely not weeks/months! But there is basically no access to a specialist without ER.
Prior to this, I got sick and my daughter was a little sick too - I wanted to get her checked out and started to call recommended pediatricians and physicians (I got recommendations in advance from local moms and thought I was prepared), I got same response - no available appointments, go to the ER. I did not think we were "ER sick".
But so far, "you should go to the ER" is a response I've been getting from medical establishments themselves. Granted, not from Docs, but from their reception staff, as I do not have access to Docs anymore.

This seems crazy! Not efficient, plus ER charges are astronomical and unpredictable, than they will also classify you as inpatient when you finally do see specialist, plus you will spend there forever with your "mild pain that lasts close to 5 days" and will be last priority.
I cannot believe that this is what access to care is like here.
When someone from baby forum complained once that she could not get first OB appointment until she was almost 6 month pregnant and was quite distressed about it, I though that was horrific and assumed she was in some poor rural underserved area with crappy welfare insurance or something like that. Even assuming these factors, I thought that situation was horrific and unacceptable.
I had no idea that in one of the richest counties near a large city one can have that much difficulty. And I am insured, educated, reasonably high income, and white, living in a major metropolitan area. How much worse is it for those who are not? How much desperation is out there?
Now I am starting to think that overcrowded ERs are NOT the fault of the patients who are too impatient or stupid to just go to the DR with non-emergency issues, that they are not flooded by the uninsured, but that many are there because it is their only gateway to get care, and it is not due to their lack of responsibility.
Interested in your perspective, especially Disneysteve.
Personally, we are now contemplating a crazy option of flying back to NYC to get medical treatment. It is insane, but may be quicker and cheaper than the ER route and is an option to someone who has resources to do that.
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