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Here's how I suggest you spend the proceeds from the sale of the Porsche to help you reach your goal of being debt-free by age 35:
1. Pay off the Maserati (since you are going to keep it).
2. Use the remainder to pay for the wedding. If the remainder is $6K, then your wedding budget is $6K. You sound like an ambitious go-getter. It can be a really fun, team-building challenge working with your life partner to see just how far you can stretch your dollars. Since you both work less than full-time, and the wedding isn't for over a year, you'll have plenty of time to come up with creative ways to keep the costs down while still creating a lovely wedding. Sit down and come up with a budget together, scour garage sales or thrift stores or dumpster dive for decorations, make things like the dress or cake or invitations yourself, etc, etc. A wedding is a big day, but it's just one day. All the important stuff comes after the wedding when you spend the rest of your lives together. You don't need to spend $35K to get a marriage off on the right foot!
More long-term, I suggest you consider the following:
1. Think about what percentage of your net worth you want tied up in non-financial assets (residences, vehicles, watches & jewelry). Right now, if my calculation is correct, your net worth is comprised of roughly 1/4 financial assets and 3/4 non-financial assets. I'll be diplomatic and just say that is weighted rather heavily toward the non-financial side.
2. Think about what "risk" really means. Currently it appears that about 25% of your net worth is in just one vehicle. To me it seems that you are not very broadly diversified.
3. Take a realistic look at your career and earnings, and ask yourself if it is something you'll be able to continue indefinitely. Are at least 1/2 of your co-workers 45 or older???
4. To lighten things up a bit, here's another fun mid-term goal to consider: Shoot for "Admiral Share" status at Vanguard so that your expense ratio decreases. The expense ratio for VWINX is 0.23% but the expense ratio for VWIAX is only 0.16%. Same fund, you just pay less in expenses.
5. You mentioned that you need to work on your budget. Why not sit down with your fiance and come up with a joint budget and then implement it now? No need to wait until after the wedding. It will be a good way to make sure that your priorities and goals are in synch before the wedding.
And FYI, a HSA is a Health Savings Account. You can only open one if you have a HDHP (High Deductible Health Plan). What type of medical insurance do you and your fiance currently have?
Good luck as you continue the journey. And welcome to the SA forums.
P.S. scfr = Smart Couples Finish Rich (currently planning where to go with my husband, aka my amazing partner in all things including financial, to celebrate our upcoming 25th anniversary)Last edited by scfr; 07-10-2016, 11:20 AM.
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I'll be the dissenter and tell you to avoid all of the IRS endorsed vehicles - IRAs, 401Ks, etc, if you want to grow your wealth. These vehicles were invented for Everyman, and Everyman isn't getting rich and never will. Whatever the gubmit is incentivizing me to do, is often to my detriment and for the gubmit's benefit.
At their best, these vehicles provide paltry growth, in exchange for a heavy price - locking your money away until retirement, and an extremely limited option of "investments" (using that term generously). Wish I had figured this out at 30 instead of 40.
No thanks.Last edited by TexasHusker; 07-10-2016, 11:49 AM.
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Originally posted by TexasHusker View PostI'll be the dissenter and tell you to avoid all of the IRS endorsed vehicles - IRAs, 401Ks, etc, if you want to grow your wealth. These vehicles were invented for Everyman, and Everyman isn't getting rich and never will. Whatever the gubmit is incentivizing me to do, is often to my detriment and for the gubmit's benefit.
At their best, these vehicles provide paltry growth, in exchange for a heavy price - locking your money away until retirement, and an extremely limited option of "investments" (using that term generously). Wish I had figured this out at 30 instead of 40.
No thanks.
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Thank you for your high quality response. Please allow me to share my thoughts in regard to everything you said!
Originally posted by scfr View PostHere's how I suggest you spend the proceeds from the sale of the Porsche to help you reach your goal of being debt-free by age 35:
1. Pay off the Maserati (since you are going to keep it).
Originally posted by scfr View Post2. Use the remainder to pay for the wedding. If the remainder is $6K, then your wedding budget is $6K. You sound like an ambitious go-getter. It can be a really fun, team-building challenge working with your life partner to see just how far you can stretch your dollars. Since you both work less than full-time, and the wedding isn't for over a year, you'll have plenty of time to come up with creative ways to keep the costs down while still creating a lovely wedding. Sit down and come up with a budget together, scour garage sales or thrift stores or dumpster dive for decorations, make things like the dress or cake or invitations yourself, etc, etc. A wedding is a big day, but it's just one day. All the important stuff comes after the wedding when you spend the rest of your lives together. You don't need to spend $35K to get a marriage off on the right foot!
Originally posted by scfr View PostMore long-term, I suggest you consider the following:
1. Think about what percentage of your net worth you want tied up in non-financial assets (residences, vehicles, watches & jewelry). Right now, if my calculation is correct, your net worth is comprised of roughly 1/4 financial assets and 3/4 non-financial assets. I'll be diplomatic and just say that is weighted rather heavily toward the non-financial side.
Originally posted by scfr View Post2. Think about what "risk" really means. Currently it appears that about 25% of your net worth is in just one vehicle. To me it seems that you are not very broadly diversified.
Originally posted by scfr View Post3. Take a realistic look at your career and earnings, and ask yourself if it is something you'll be able to continue indefinitely. Are at least 1/2 of your co-workers 45 or older???
Originally posted by scfr View Post4. To lighten things up a bit, here's another fun mid-term goal to consider: Shoot for "Admiral Share" status at Vanguard so that your expense ratio decreases. The expense ratio for VWINX is 0.23% but the expense ratio for VWIAX is only 0.16%. Same fund, you just pay less in expenses.
Originally posted by scfr View Post5. You mentioned that you need to work on your budget. Why not sit down with your fiance and come up with a joint budget and then implement it now? No need to wait until after the wedding. It will be a good way to make sure that your priorities and goals are in sync before the wedding.
Originally posted by scfr View PostAnd FYI, a HSA is a Health Savings Account. You can only open one if you have a HDHP (High Deductible Health Plan). What type of medical insurance do you and your fiance currently have?
I certainly plan to take a closer look at both of health insurance details.
Originally posted by scfr View PostGood luck as you continue the journey. And welcome to the SA forums.
P.S. scfr = Smart Couples Finish Rich (currently planning where to go with my husband, aka my amazing partner in all things including financial, to celebrate our upcoming 25th anniversary)
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Originally posted by TexasHusker View PostI'll be the dissenter and tell you to avoid all of the IRS endorsed vehicles - IRAs, 401Ks, etc, if you want to grow your wealth. These vehicles were invented for Everyman, and Everyman isn't getting rich and never will. Whatever the gubmit is incentivizing me to do, is often to my detriment and for the gubmit's benefit.
At their best, these vehicles provide paltry growth, in exchange for a heavy price - locking your money away until retirement, and an extremely limited option of "investments" (using that term generously). Wish I had figured this out at 30 instead of 40.
No thanks.
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Originally posted by Attitudeofawinner View PostRegardless of the tax benefits, I personally prefer to put payoff my home before I put large amounts of money into other options. It's a personal choice from a serenity stand point. Once that is paid off my next set of goal post 35 years old will focus on broadening my diversification into a much higher % of portfolio assets as well as land and real estate.
Originally posted by Attitudeofawinner View PostMy career was established at a very young age. From a stress and effort level on a scale of one to ten I would say the job is a three. For others I'm certain its much higher but I have a knack for it. Most people range from their mid 40's all the way up to the high 60's that do what I do. It's stable, and I could do it as long as I want to without much worry of it ending.
Originally posted by Attitudeofawinner View PostSo when I say a budget. I know every expense I have on a month to month with my bills. What I don't have is when I wake up and grab a coffee on the way to work, or when I order lunch delivery to work and have a receptionist sign my CC slip and look at what I actually spend. This is where I'm not frugal. My Chase Sapphire Rewards card gets a workout on a daily basis with small expenses that add up!
Going back to that serenity that you mentioned you want from having a paid-off home ... Whatever you save each month on your discretionary spending, you could use to make an extra principal payment toward your mortgage! And then, voila, your spending is aligned with what you value most (peace of mind over a fancy coffee drink).
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Originally posted by tomhole View PostWe all know your thoughts on the market. What would be really cool is if you completed the thought and offered advice on what to do vs. the market.My advice to you, however, is to stick to your plan.
If the OP is interested, I'm sure he will PM me.
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Originally posted by TexasHusker View PostI think I have covered that exhaustively in various other threads.My advice to you, however, is to stick to your plan.
If the OP is interested, I'm sure he will PM me.
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Originally posted by tomhole View PostSo, you will take the time to tell hime what not to do in this thread, but refer him to other posts to discover the secret to real returns. Helpful as always.
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scfr,
Thank you for the very insightful post. I have tried to put away my CC and withdraw a given amount I have allowed myself to spend on a week to week however I could never stick with it. I guess when the emotional side of my brain kicks back in over time I say to myself "I have a large enough income to not have to deal with the and have the luxury to swipe when I want." This is not the attitude I should have but just like anything else in life it takes dedication and if the cost outweighs the value then the bad habits kick back in. A lot of people do this when they lose weight and put it back on again.
I suppose I already knew 99% of these things and this website will be a way for me to stay better focused on self control. After all, whatever you focus on expands! Thanks for everyone who took the time to contribute!
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Originally posted by Attitudeofawinner View Postscfr,
Thank you for the very insightful post. I have tried to put away my CC and withdraw a given amount I have allowed myself to spend on a week to week however I could never stick with it. I guess when the emotional side of my brain kicks back in over time I say to myself "I have a large enough income to not have to deal with the and have the luxury to swipe when I want." This is not the attitude I should have but just like anything else in life it takes dedication and if the cost outweighs the value then the bad habits kick back in. A lot of people do this when they lose weight and put it back on again.
I suppose I already knew 99% of these things and this website will be a way for me to stay better focused on self control. After all, whatever you focus on expands! Thanks for everyone who took the time to contribute!
If there is a lot of risk of your income depleting, or the area you are working in going bust, right now would be ideal to do as Singuy said and just save your money. Too often I hear the back story of a young guy doing very well, living it up, and then the career he is in dries up and he goes bust trying to maintain.Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes that reason is you're stupid and make bad choices.
Current Occupation: Spending every dollar before I die
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Originally posted by GoodSteward View PostThat's a dangerous freedom to allow yourself IMO. You sound like you're very intelligent, and I think it is awesome you do so well. However, what I noticed was that your income was going up, but you projected an Avg of less than the current years income over the next 5 years. What do you do for a living? How much risk is there to that income falling apart? That would make a big difference in how you would be advised.
If there is a lot of risk of your income depleting, or the area you are working in going bust, right now would be ideal to do as Singuy said and just save your money. Too often I hear the back story of a young guy doing very well, living it up, and then the career he is in dries up and he goes bust trying to maintain.
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Originally posted by Attitudeofawinner View PostI would not like to disclose what I do as I feel this thread would go sideways in an instant.
Something I learned early on in life is that nobody is irreplaceable. I was friends with the owner of a business and thought I had nothing to worry about. He was misinformed of his tax obligations, and suddenly found himself broke. He had to let go of almost everybody and hire on family to work for free until he could build up. It might not be anywhere near where you are, but the lesson for me is the same. Assuming makes a fool out of us all eventually. If I were you, I would first work on building up your financial house by avoiding many extras. You may think you are not replaceable, but you can only control so many factors of your life. One wrong move and you could ruin your reputation, or be in an accident and become disabled. I am not wishing anything on you, but it is wiser to always remember things could change. Prepare for that.
Either way, I think you are still way better off than your average Joe and you're coming to places like this to get advice (or gloat....I guess we'll see how long you are here to know which it is :P ) so Cheers!Last edited by GoodSteward; 07-16-2016, 10:35 AM.Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes that reason is you're stupid and make bad choices.
Current Occupation: Spending every dollar before I die
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