What is a small wedding?

[97guns]

she's not working yet, she would like to have a baby

[LivingAlmostLarge]

Will that change your early retirement plan? Will you go back?

[sv2007]

In line with the recent question about paying for weddings of offspring, what do you think is a small wedding?

I'm chuckling as I ask because my son and his fiance told me they want a "small wedding". Last I heard, that needs to include about 100 people from her family. I don't think our families have had 100 people in the last four generations. I knew she had a large extended family, very much accustomed to getting together. Even without big occasions they have one or two well-attended reunions per year, so yes they'd want to be there for the wedding. My son has been attending those reunions for four or five years, so they do know them as a couple.

100 people is not considered a small wedding for all the people I know.
But in the end, it would be you to decide what is or is not a small wedding. Everybody is different.

[97guns]

Will that change your early retirement plan? Will you go back?

nope, i will remain retired, looking at a few options now to increase my cash flow