The penalty exception applies to the first 10k only, and that is a lifetime limit. Just pointing it out.

Here is what I think we have decided to do. both of our 401ks allow us to roll over 10k into an IRA which we may use penalty free. We will then take an additional 25k from our emergency fund Which currently has about 60k.
Better option would be to use $45k out of your efund for the DP and drop your contributions until you build it back up to where you're comfortable.

Even ignoring the "retirement money is sacred" thing, it makes more sense to take money from an account earning at most what, 1% interest, vs. an account earning on average 7.5%.
Using the assumptions from your earlier examples, if you leave your 401(k) alone, drop your contributions to $10,000 per year for three years, and then go back to contributing $30,000 per year for 27 additional years, in 30 years time you'll have $2.25 million. (That doesn't include your employer's matching contributions.)
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