Originally posted by retireby55
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Everyone I know is getting a divorce or is already divorced, so I don't understand why some of you think I'm having a marriage issues just because I want to plan for the unforeseen future.
It's just like couples getting a prenup before they get married, that doesn't mean they are not happy or they're planning to get a divorce. Before I got married, I read lots of articles recommending (at least for people who married late in life) to keep their pre-marital assets separate from post-marital asset. He also keeps his pre-marital assets separate. We both made the decision to keep those separate.
Maybe that's not much to some people, but I work very hard to save it
It's a sacrifice I'm willing to make to achieve my goal, so I don't want to take any chance of having to split that IF there is a divorce. Is that so wrong? :-(
Note, though, that separate accounts just makes things easier during a divorce. In my state, at least, if you and he had created detailed net worth documents at marriage, then you could have co-mingled funds and during the divorce lawyers would have used those documents as starting points to split everything up.
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