Husband has had a great job for almost 39 years. April of 2014, he, along with a bunch others, lost their jobs. Since then all he can find are jobs that don't pay more than $10 an hour. He had been making over $40 an hour and free insurance.
He had been planning to retire next year. But, with the job gone, so is the pension. He does have a nice 401K. We had been putting a very large chunk of his pay into his 401K and company stocks-as much as was allowed. We should have had some of it where we could get it now, without paying taxes and fines.
So, he is working a $10 an hour job, and I found one for $12 an hour (almost unheard of around here to make $12). Well, yesterday, I walked off my job. I refuse to be called an idot by an uneducated biker woman manager who constantly uses foul language at work in front of customers and other staff. I had just had enough. So, I quit. I had only started in December, so there 2 months only.
I have had 2 other interviews that went real well. Very well, and one had me do a drug test and background check, so almost 100% sure I have it. It pays less, but is local, so less fuel, better hours, 3 blocks from my childrens school, day ours and off Sundays. It is also a very nice environment to work in. Taking out no uniforms, less fuel, being able to take a lunch and eat it there--I actually will be bringing home slightly more money than I was before. IF I get the job
Needless to say, its been tight, but we are making it. If it gets to the point that we are not....is it ok to take out of the 401K? Or do we just suck it up and sell off the children?? What to do? In May, rental income will start coming in. We will be needing to pay taxes soon as well.
Nothing left to cut back on:
Trash $0 (we burn and recycle)
Sewer $0 we have a septic tank
Water $40 as we supplement with well for cattle, car washing and garden use
Electric $150
Propane $1200 a year
Mortgage on land $225 month (can't sell this land, as it is landlocked to where we live)
mortgage on rental house $560 month (just got a contract and renters will be moving in on May 1 paying $1000 a month) This is the house that tenants tore up and it took us over a year to get rent-able again. New tenants will take good care, as it is my daughter who is getting married and also niece and friend will be living there as well, as its a 4000 sq foot home with an apartment area.
Dish Network--free (we dropped it and it still works...called them twice and they argue they can't turn it off because its already off....so, we have free dish...)
Internet $49 a month, which I pay for from doing surveys--can't drop it because some of daughters college classes are online
Cell phones $200 month (for family of 7-kids too young to pay for own, can't break contract-we tried-this is just basic with one smart phone as husbands work requires it). We tried to switch to sprint to cut it down, but sprint phones don't work here.
Auto insurance for 4 vehicles $300 month
My car payment $80 per week, with less than 4 months left on it.
Food $75 per month (yes that is right because we grow our own meat, fish, can our own food and bake from scratch)
Gas to and from work, school $200 month
Income:
Early retirement from my first job $726 month (goes up 10% every April until it tops out at age 67)
SS (from my daughters father passing away) $1200 month for 18 more months then they turn 18
Husbands income $1000 a month (his take home after taxes and insurance come out)
My income (was anywhere from 200 wk to 1000 a week as my hours were anywhere from 20 hrs a week to 80)
I also write for extra income, do childcare at times, and husband and I also work events during the summer. So income will improve this spring.... The husbands health has not been good, so he has only been working 40 hrs.
Any suggestions??
He had been planning to retire next year. But, with the job gone, so is the pension. He does have a nice 401K. We had been putting a very large chunk of his pay into his 401K and company stocks-as much as was allowed. We should have had some of it where we could get it now, without paying taxes and fines.
So, he is working a $10 an hour job, and I found one for $12 an hour (almost unheard of around here to make $12). Well, yesterday, I walked off my job. I refuse to be called an idot by an uneducated biker woman manager who constantly uses foul language at work in front of customers and other staff. I had just had enough. So, I quit. I had only started in December, so there 2 months only.
I have had 2 other interviews that went real well. Very well, and one had me do a drug test and background check, so almost 100% sure I have it. It pays less, but is local, so less fuel, better hours, 3 blocks from my childrens school, day ours and off Sundays. It is also a very nice environment to work in. Taking out no uniforms, less fuel, being able to take a lunch and eat it there--I actually will be bringing home slightly more money than I was before. IF I get the job
Needless to say, its been tight, but we are making it. If it gets to the point that we are not....is it ok to take out of the 401K? Or do we just suck it up and sell off the children?? What to do? In May, rental income will start coming in. We will be needing to pay taxes soon as well.
Nothing left to cut back on:
Trash $0 (we burn and recycle)
Sewer $0 we have a septic tank
Water $40 as we supplement with well for cattle, car washing and garden use
Electric $150
Propane $1200 a year
Mortgage on land $225 month (can't sell this land, as it is landlocked to where we live)
mortgage on rental house $560 month (just got a contract and renters will be moving in on May 1 paying $1000 a month) This is the house that tenants tore up and it took us over a year to get rent-able again. New tenants will take good care, as it is my daughter who is getting married and also niece and friend will be living there as well, as its a 4000 sq foot home with an apartment area.
Dish Network--free (we dropped it and it still works...called them twice and they argue they can't turn it off because its already off....so, we have free dish...)
Internet $49 a month, which I pay for from doing surveys--can't drop it because some of daughters college classes are online
Cell phones $200 month (for family of 7-kids too young to pay for own, can't break contract-we tried-this is just basic with one smart phone as husbands work requires it). We tried to switch to sprint to cut it down, but sprint phones don't work here.
Auto insurance for 4 vehicles $300 month
My car payment $80 per week, with less than 4 months left on it.
Food $75 per month (yes that is right because we grow our own meat, fish, can our own food and bake from scratch)
Gas to and from work, school $200 month
Income:
Early retirement from my first job $726 month (goes up 10% every April until it tops out at age 67)
SS (from my daughters father passing away) $1200 month for 18 more months then they turn 18
Husbands income $1000 a month (his take home after taxes and insurance come out)
My income (was anywhere from 200 wk to 1000 a week as my hours were anywhere from 20 hrs a week to 80)
I also write for extra income, do childcare at times, and husband and I also work events during the summer. So income will improve this spring.... The husbands health has not been good, so he has only been working 40 hrs.
Any suggestions??
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