I paid 231.4k for my house, while making about 45k. I did put 20% down. Here we are almost 7 years later, and it has worked out fine. 
I would like to spend less on housing and put more into investments each month. But, we have different priorities at different times in our lives. I'd be content in a 1 br / 1 ba, if it were just me. While raising children, I wanted more space.
I think a 220k home while earning 80k is completely doable.

I would like to spend less on housing and put more into investments each month. But, we have different priorities at different times in our lives. I'd be content in a 1 br / 1 ba, if it were just me. While raising children, I wanted more space.
I think a 220k home while earning 80k is completely doable.

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