Sex

[mtsen]

and the reason for such a vast differences is ...

sex is an simple series of acts. however subject to all kind of interpretation from many angles.

if u think sex desire is just like eating desire, then u can have sex anytime. The consequences is STD or in eating case - over weight.

if sex is the bond of 2 person, then you may want to find the right person to bond. Once the person is right, you can bond anytime.

if sex is the relationship enhancer, then you should have sex every time you need to 'enhance' ...

if sex is the soul kind of stuff, you may need to wait till marriage, this and that .... just in case those are the soul kind of stuff too.

~ hope no one gets offended as I am new here, am just trying to bring fun to every one here ~

[davecc]

After you are married. True love waits.

what's wrong with you people??? what if your partner sucks at sex? are you going to get divorced?

For me, if you think you found the right person, a few days is good enough! )

[elizabeth9]

it depends. how do you fair when judging others? some people do a good job. some people do an awful job. if you've noticed a cycle where you sleep with somebody too early after you THINK you know them, only to later discover that you don't, maybe you ought to change yourself.

[elizabeth9]

what's wrong with you people??? what if your partner sucks at sex?

I agree. Sex is such a personal thing, and if you find somebody hates to be touched in certain areas that you love... WOW!

[swapnil]

Not until both the partners are ready, and for getting ready for it, both of the partners should build trust on them to take such a big step.

[boefixepa]

I meet mu husband when I was 31 and he was 30. The first time BOTH of us had sex was on our wedding night. Six years later we are still has happy as can be and raising three beautiful little girls.

Find someone with the same values and beliefs on sex or that will be another thing you have to figure out.

Personally, I say ring first.

[ronantheconan]

When you're married. (Seriously).

I second the opinion. My wife and I had our first after marriage, none happened before that.

[KenDuy]

Interesting,,....