I dont know what to do with my debts.

[CCFREEDOM]

Thank you guys. I didnt get to read your posts till now as I havent been able to see the latest posts (some technical problems).

Yes, I was having a bad day the other day and the more I think about the more I think BK is a bad idea.

Lovcom, I dont want my BF's money and one day real estate will go up and I will probably have as much as he does. I do lack romance in my life and feeling like he can spare a few dollars here and there to make me feel special..that is all I want. I am not a golddigger by any means..But lets supposed something happened to him while I was married, and I didnt have anything, I cant even count on his pension to survive. We dont go to any fancy restaurant, we rent $1 movies and we dont get away unless I pay my share which is impossible because I need to pay my bills. I always pay some of the meals or cook at home. I just have a very cheap man in my life that I need to get rid of.

So I am on a budget and careful now where I spend my money and it sure wont be paying some rich boyfriend's dinner.

Thanks....I will continue to post just to get your perspective since I am on plan to get rid of my debts and you guys are very knowledgable.

[LuxLiving]

That's good news on no bankruptcy -

Love yourself enough to get your financial life in order!!

Go YOU!

[lovcom]

Thank you guys. I didnt get to read your posts till now as I havent been able to see the latest posts (some technical problems).

Yes, I was having a bad day the other day and the more I think about the more I think BK is a bad idea.

Lovcom, I dont want my BF's money and one day real estate will go up and I will probably have as much as he does. I do lack romance in my life and feeling like he can spare a few dollars here and there to make me feel special..that is all I want. I am not a golddigger by any means..But lets supposed something happened to him while I was married, and I didnt have anything, I cant even count on his pension to survive. We dont go to any fancy restaurant, we rent $1 movies and we dont get away unless I pay my share which is impossible because I need to pay my bills. I always pay some of the meals or cook at home. I just have a very cheap man in my life that I need to get rid of.

So I am on a budget and careful now where I spend my money and it sure wont be paying some rich boyfriend's dinner.

Thanks....I will continue to post just to get your perspective since I am on plan to get rid of my debts and you guys are very knowledgable.

So then the real issue is that your BF does not provide romance, so get rid of him.

Perhaps he is using you for good times in the sack and it don't cost him much....he has taken you for granted and he has stopped wooing you.

Send him packing....find someone that has his financial house in order AND is romantic...they do exist....you're issues are a lot smaller then you think ;-)