Where to begin? My sister-in-law (let’s call her Joan) is dying of cancer in her early 50’s. She is just about out of time and is losing her mental facilities. She is estranged from her husband (let’s call him Tom) – if she had time, she would divorce him – and Tom has issues that leave him too incompetent to deal with her situation or the incredible financial mess they have gotten themselves into. Joan is very ill and it’s hard to get concrete information from her.
Joan owns 3 timeshares, a small one in Cabo San Lucas with Tom, a Wyndam resort unit with Tom, and a large unit in a Berkshire resort that she owns with a friend (let’s call the friend Linda). Joan realizes that the time shares probably have no dollar value but she is upset with the thought that all the money she put into them over the years will be “wasted” if her family cannot use them in the future.
Joan and Tom’s units are fully paid for and have maintenance fees totaling about $2,000 a year. We assume that Tom has rights of survivorship and will be forced to take over full ownership of these units when Joan passes. I don’t believe they will be subject to probate or be considered part of Joan’s estate. Tom is not capable of handling this responsibility on any level. Joan’s siblings had offered to take these over by having Joan and Tom sign over the deeds, but we probably have no time left to do this. None of us really wanted them, we were simply trying to put Joan at ease with the thought that we and our children would think of her while enjoying future vacations resulting from these timeshares.
Hope I haven’t lost you, because I’m coming to the main problem. The third unit that Joan owns with her friend Linda cost about $30 grand so far and they still owe about $6 grand to the resort. They pay about $370 a month for the debt and the maintenance. We assume that Linda does not have rights of survivorship and that 50% of this timeshare will be subject to probate. The time share is Joan’s only “asset.” Joan owes money on her house – it’s in foreclosure and she is in debt to credit card companies. These debts are only in her name, not shared with Tom. The debts far outweigh the value of her share of the time share she owns with Linda.
Joan has made a will naming her siblings as beneficiaries. My husband and I plan to refuse the time share – I have no interest in owning a fractional share of a time share with a woman I barely know or the rest of my husband’s elderly siblings. I am encouraging his siblings to also refuse the time share, though they are not taking as a hard a look at this situation as I am. Will Joan’s debtors want the half interest in the time share? Will the debt on the time share have to be paid off first and with what? Will Linda be responsible for it? Will we need to get the debtors to sign off on not claiming the time share so Linda can get on with her life? I envision this thing being in probate forever. Is it possible to quickly change how the time share is deeded so Linda does has rights of survivorship, thereby avoiding probate? Also, one of the siblings has a vacation planned later this year with one of the time shares. Joan will probably have passed by then and I've cautioned the sibling against using the time share once it's in probate. Could it be construed as an acceptance of the inheritance and the debt?
I’d appreciate any advice or stories from people in similar situations.
Joan owns 3 timeshares, a small one in Cabo San Lucas with Tom, a Wyndam resort unit with Tom, and a large unit in a Berkshire resort that she owns with a friend (let’s call the friend Linda). Joan realizes that the time shares probably have no dollar value but she is upset with the thought that all the money she put into them over the years will be “wasted” if her family cannot use them in the future.
Joan and Tom’s units are fully paid for and have maintenance fees totaling about $2,000 a year. We assume that Tom has rights of survivorship and will be forced to take over full ownership of these units when Joan passes. I don’t believe they will be subject to probate or be considered part of Joan’s estate. Tom is not capable of handling this responsibility on any level. Joan’s siblings had offered to take these over by having Joan and Tom sign over the deeds, but we probably have no time left to do this. None of us really wanted them, we were simply trying to put Joan at ease with the thought that we and our children would think of her while enjoying future vacations resulting from these timeshares.
Hope I haven’t lost you, because I’m coming to the main problem. The third unit that Joan owns with her friend Linda cost about $30 grand so far and they still owe about $6 grand to the resort. They pay about $370 a month for the debt and the maintenance. We assume that Linda does not have rights of survivorship and that 50% of this timeshare will be subject to probate. The time share is Joan’s only “asset.” Joan owes money on her house – it’s in foreclosure and she is in debt to credit card companies. These debts are only in her name, not shared with Tom. The debts far outweigh the value of her share of the time share she owns with Linda.
Joan has made a will naming her siblings as beneficiaries. My husband and I plan to refuse the time share – I have no interest in owning a fractional share of a time share with a woman I barely know or the rest of my husband’s elderly siblings. I am encouraging his siblings to also refuse the time share, though they are not taking as a hard a look at this situation as I am. Will Joan’s debtors want the half interest in the time share? Will the debt on the time share have to be paid off first and with what? Will Linda be responsible for it? Will we need to get the debtors to sign off on not claiming the time share so Linda can get on with her life? I envision this thing being in probate forever. Is it possible to quickly change how the time share is deeded so Linda does has rights of survivorship, thereby avoiding probate? Also, one of the siblings has a vacation planned later this year with one of the time shares. Joan will probably have passed by then and I've cautioned the sibling against using the time share once it's in probate. Could it be construed as an acceptance of the inheritance and the debt?
I’d appreciate any advice or stories from people in similar situations.
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