Hi-
Here's our story: I am 38, DH is 44. We have one DD who is 5.
- $49k in DH's 401k, with $620 added/month + company match (=$1,240/mo)
- $25k in IRA (DH)
- $9K in IRA (mine)
- $51k in savings (8 months of DH's income, just got there
)
- Mortgage (29 years remaining at 4.15%) balance $354k on $402k net value. We are currently paying 1 extra payment on principal per year as well.
- Two Auto Loans - one with ~4 years remaining at $291/mo, one with ~10mo remaining at $246/mo
- No Credit Card Debt
- Annual Household Income: $179k (DH $129K, me $50K). I should mention here that I am making this working 50% effort. DH and I are both Ph.D.s and I acquired a position managing an instrument facility (with a faculty appointment) last year at a very large, private University. I do anticipate eventually working full time (within 5 years most likely) and will do so for the rest of my career. This University currently offers 90% discount for all dependents of employees on undergraduate tuition, and 50% discount for 25 other local colleges (some restrictions with that though- they only allow this for so many people, etc).
Monthly budget:
total incoming (after DH's 401K contribution removed): $9,675
total outgoing for bills: $3,926 (this includes the extra house payment)
total other expenses (food, gas, vacations, everything else): $3,200
With our current income/spending habits, we have ~$2549 remaining/month. Up until very recently, we were "investing" $1,500/month in a whole life policy we are now going to cancel and walk away from (as well as our financial planner, I posted about this in another thread).
We have been completely clueless about anything financial up until (and including!) now. DH and I have been in training for our careers for a long time (=pretty much broke) and it took 7 years to save for the 10% downpayment on our home (plus payoff of the PMI). Acquiring the home was the first goal.
I'm looking for any and all comments on where we are and what we should do moving forward. I just read Suze Orman's "The Money Class" and since DH would like to retire at 65 if possible (I will still be working for at least 6 more years and should most definitely be making 6 figures at that point), I'm thinking maybe we should (1) accelerate our mortgage payments to have the house paid for in 20 years (when he'll be looking to retire) and (2) pull out of the whole life and invest the rest directly for retirement (but how? where?).
thanks!
Jen
Here's our story: I am 38, DH is 44. We have one DD who is 5.
- $49k in DH's 401k, with $620 added/month + company match (=$1,240/mo)
- $25k in IRA (DH)
- $9K in IRA (mine)
- $51k in savings (8 months of DH's income, just got there
)- Mortgage (29 years remaining at 4.15%) balance $354k on $402k net value. We are currently paying 1 extra payment on principal per year as well.
- Two Auto Loans - one with ~4 years remaining at $291/mo, one with ~10mo remaining at $246/mo
- No Credit Card Debt
- Annual Household Income: $179k (DH $129K, me $50K). I should mention here that I am making this working 50% effort. DH and I are both Ph.D.s and I acquired a position managing an instrument facility (with a faculty appointment) last year at a very large, private University. I do anticipate eventually working full time (within 5 years most likely) and will do so for the rest of my career. This University currently offers 90% discount for all dependents of employees on undergraduate tuition, and 50% discount for 25 other local colleges (some restrictions with that though- they only allow this for so many people, etc).
Monthly budget:
total incoming (after DH's 401K contribution removed): $9,675
total outgoing for bills: $3,926 (this includes the extra house payment)
total other expenses (food, gas, vacations, everything else): $3,200
With our current income/spending habits, we have ~$2549 remaining/month. Up until very recently, we were "investing" $1,500/month in a whole life policy we are now going to cancel and walk away from (as well as our financial planner, I posted about this in another thread).
We have been completely clueless about anything financial up until (and including!) now. DH and I have been in training for our careers for a long time (=pretty much broke) and it took 7 years to save for the 10% downpayment on our home (plus payoff of the PMI). Acquiring the home was the first goal.
I'm looking for any and all comments on where we are and what we should do moving forward. I just read Suze Orman's "The Money Class" and since DH would like to retire at 65 if possible (I will still be working for at least 6 more years and should most definitely be making 6 figures at that point), I'm thinking maybe we should (1) accelerate our mortgage payments to have the house paid for in 20 years (when he'll be looking to retire) and (2) pull out of the whole life and invest the rest directly for retirement (but how? where?).
thanks!
Jen

). I had all of his bad money habits at that time but thank goodness I had enough sense to enroll in a graduate program that is funded by the government - pays full tuition and gives a stipend for living expenses. My husband did the same and he has no undergrad debt. The reason we are low in cash is the schooling/training for our careers takes a long time and pays very little, since we complete post-doctoral fellowships after receiving our Ph.Ds (similar to the residencies MDs complete). During my fellowship, we lived in San Francisco for 6 years where I made 48K, (~3,200 take home), $1,600 went to a nanny, and our rent was $2,700/month.
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