dang, I just did my first post, and seeing this made me panic a little. i'm about 12 years older than you and have 140K in my 401K. I don't max out. I do like 2 or 3 percentage points below max out. Plus, my wife and I spend a fair amount - we love music, arts, EATING! 
we're thinking of having kids....you're post is making me pause

we're thinking of having kids....you're post is making me pause

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