Hello everyone, I’m new here and would greatly appreciate some opinions on my situation.
My husband and I are closing on a new construction home in a little less than two weeks. When we signed the contract to build the home back in March, we were planning for a 10% down payment. We did the loan in my name only because my husband’s credit score was under 700. Because the loan is for a $343k home based on my $55k income only (our combined income is around $145k, but DH’s doesn’t count since he’s not on the loan), our lender came back in April and said the PMI companies had changed their required debt/income ratio, and I now fell outside the acceptable limit. They proposed that we bring a 14% down payment to get me back within the limit. It would eat up most of our emergency fund, but it was doable, so we agreed to put down 14%. We thought everything was fine until a couple weeks ago, when we got another call from the lender saying the PMI companies had once again changed their requirements and, yet again, my debt/income ratio fell outside the acceptable limit. Our lender is currently working with one PMI company to make an exception (4 out of the 5 PMI companies they work with said no), but as our closing date is quickly approaching and we still have no firm answer, I started crunching the numbers to see what it would take to get us to a 20% down payment and avoid PMI altogether. I figured that doing so would deplete our emergency fund and we would need to borrow about $14,500 in a 401k loan to make it happen. My question is, is it worth it taking out a 401k loan to avoid PMI and reduce our monthly payment by $250/month? I know it’s not good to completely drain our emergency fund either, but we have always been aggressive about saving money and staying out of debt, so I feel like we would build it back and pay off the 401k loans pretty quickly.
I look forward to reading your responses!

My husband and I are closing on a new construction home in a little less than two weeks. When we signed the contract to build the home back in March, we were planning for a 10% down payment. We did the loan in my name only because my husband’s credit score was under 700. Because the loan is for a $343k home based on my $55k income only (our combined income is around $145k, but DH’s doesn’t count since he’s not on the loan), our lender came back in April and said the PMI companies had changed their required debt/income ratio, and I now fell outside the acceptable limit. They proposed that we bring a 14% down payment to get me back within the limit. It would eat up most of our emergency fund, but it was doable, so we agreed to put down 14%. We thought everything was fine until a couple weeks ago, when we got another call from the lender saying the PMI companies had once again changed their requirements and, yet again, my debt/income ratio fell outside the acceptable limit. Our lender is currently working with one PMI company to make an exception (4 out of the 5 PMI companies they work with said no), but as our closing date is quickly approaching and we still have no firm answer, I started crunching the numbers to see what it would take to get us to a 20% down payment and avoid PMI altogether. I figured that doing so would deplete our emergency fund and we would need to borrow about $14,500 in a 401k loan to make it happen. My question is, is it worth it taking out a 401k loan to avoid PMI and reduce our monthly payment by $250/month? I know it’s not good to completely drain our emergency fund either, but we have always been aggressive about saving money and staying out of debt, so I feel like we would build it back and pay off the 401k loans pretty quickly.
I look forward to reading your responses!
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