Hi All, I am new to this forum. I have made some financial mistakes in the last 3 yrs and I am currently in big trouble.
About myself, I make 90K per annum, reasonably reliable job. wife is not working and I have 3 yr old daughter. I bought my house 3 yrs ago when market was at peak. I bought it for 315k ( put down 25K). house price has gone down nearly 50% in our area. house similar to our house is listed for 170K. I owe 280K to bank now.
When I bought my house I was making only 65K. I should not have bought that big a house, thats my first mistake. after moving into the house, I had to buy some furnitures, blinds, appliances, etc., so I had to put everything in my credit cards (2nd mistake). later on I got 0% apr promo offer from some of my credit cards, so I took some money and invested in stocks (thats my third mistake). I lost some of the money that I invested. finally now I have ended up around 35K in my credit cards.
I also bought a new car an yr ago (4th mistake) and I have 22K on car loan too. I have totally about 280K + 35K + 22K = 338K loan.
Now I am finding very tough on makign the monthly payments. I can only send the minimum payment on all the credit cards. I am living paycheck to paycheck. I have requested for loan modification, but i am not getting any response from the bank. some of my friends are suggesting me to stop sending mortgage payment and send that money to pay off the credit cards.
What are the problems I would face if I do that? currently my apr on credit cards are around 10%. any kind of advice is greatly appreciated.
I have cut down my expenses as much as I could.. only thing I could do is sell my car. that would reduce $500 every month. again I have to buy something smaller or cheaper car. I dont have any emergency fund.
sorry for the long post.
About myself, I make 90K per annum, reasonably reliable job. wife is not working and I have 3 yr old daughter. I bought my house 3 yrs ago when market was at peak. I bought it for 315k ( put down 25K). house price has gone down nearly 50% in our area. house similar to our house is listed for 170K. I owe 280K to bank now.
When I bought my house I was making only 65K. I should not have bought that big a house, thats my first mistake. after moving into the house, I had to buy some furnitures, blinds, appliances, etc., so I had to put everything in my credit cards (2nd mistake). later on I got 0% apr promo offer from some of my credit cards, so I took some money and invested in stocks (thats my third mistake). I lost some of the money that I invested. finally now I have ended up around 35K in my credit cards.
I also bought a new car an yr ago (4th mistake) and I have 22K on car loan too. I have totally about 280K + 35K + 22K = 338K loan.
Now I am finding very tough on makign the monthly payments. I can only send the minimum payment on all the credit cards. I am living paycheck to paycheck. I have requested for loan modification, but i am not getting any response from the bank. some of my friends are suggesting me to stop sending mortgage payment and send that money to pay off the credit cards.
What are the problems I would face if I do that? currently my apr on credit cards are around 10%. any kind of advice is greatly appreciated.
I have cut down my expenses as much as I could.. only thing I could do is sell my car. that would reduce $500 every month. again I have to buy something smaller or cheaper car. I dont have any emergency fund.
sorry for the long post.
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