The Saving Advice Forums - A classic personal finance community.

You Don’t Need More Money Advice, You Just Need Advice You Can Relate To

Collapse
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • You Don’t Need More Money Advice, You Just Need Advice You Can Relate To

    From Lifehacker.

    -----------------------------------------------------------------------

    You Don’t Need More Money Advice, You Just Need Advice You Can Relate To
    Kristin Wong

    If you’re reading this, you’re probably at least a little interested in getting your finances in order. Maybe you’ve even tried! Maybe you’ve read a bunch of advice, but nothing seems to work for you. If that sounds familiar, the solution might not be to find more advice. Instead, focus on finding advice that speaks to you.

    If you go looking for financial advice, you’ll find tons of it. Heck, we’ve even got our own blog…

    Personal finance is, you know, personal. It’s right there in the name, but people seem to forget just how much money management has to do with your own unique situation, habits, and behaviors. Some money writers focus on their personal debt stories. Others, like me, usually focus on practical tips. And some financial experts focus on the mindset of money in our society. At its core, though, all of this personal finance advice is more or less the same. It’s the approach that’s different. The best money advice, then, is the advice you can actually relate to.

    When I first started reading and writing about money, so many people recommended Ramit Sethi’s I Will Teach You to Be Rich, saying it completely changed their life. Sethi offers the same advice that’s worked for ages, but he packages it in a way that speaks to a lot of people. For example, he’s not into cutting back on lattes. Instead of being frugal and saving $3 at a time, he argues, you should focus on saving money where it matters—housing, food, and other large expenses.

    All too often we focus on cutting out the little things (like a daily cappuccino), when we should…

    Many people find this attitude refreshing. The idea that they can still enjoy small pleasures, like a daily latte, makes them totally want to do this money thing. The advice seems to contradict traditional personal finance advice, which makes it appealing, but when you really dig into it, the advice is standard: cut back on stuff you don’t care about so you have more money to spend on things you do care about. What sets Sethi’s advice apart, though, is his mindset toward money. And that’s everything.

    In other words, he has a relatable story: the guy bucking frugality to take control and do what works for him. People love that, and, as a result, I can only imagine the number of readers Sethi has motivated to open a 401(k).

    You might find a different story that motivates you, though.

    When I was in student loan debt, I loved reading Donna Freedman’s money advice over at MSN. She was a writer and she was frugal. Her story completely resonated with me, and she also gave practical, no-nonsense tips for saving money, which is what I was looking for at the time. Reading her posts every day motivated me to take action and get involved with my own finances.

    If you’re ready to action and nothing has really worked for you yet, you might consider focusing on the story rather than the advice. If you’re in debt, that might mean following a blogger going through the same thing (or someone who has been there and done that). Basically, you want to look for stories, perspectives, and values that align with your own. (Rockstar Finance is an excellent platform for browsing different types of financial blogs).

    It also helps to find a convenient medium. For example, I bought a good friend a copy of I Will Teach You to help him with his own finances, and he never picked it up because he’s just not a book reader. When I started sending him Sethi’s blog posts, though, he paid attention. Before I knew it, he had increased his monthly student debt payment and saved an emergency fund. A more accessible medium made it easier for him to digest the advice and, more importantly, take action on it.

    If you spend a lot of time commuting, a podcast might be your ideal medium (here are some reader favorites). It’s easy enough to pull up a money-related show during your drive to work or your drive home.

    It doesn’t matter how relatable the advice is, if it’s not a medium you’re used to using, it’s only going to make it harder to get your finances in order because your challenge becomes twofold: get your finances in order and make more time for books. Getting your finances in order is hard enough, so just pick a medium you’re comfortable with, then focus on being a more avid reader separately.

    Once you find a story that speaks to you and a medium that makes it easy to digest the advice, you want to keep eating up that advice. It should come pretty naturally. When you actually enjoy what you’re reading (or listening to), you’ll actually look forward to new blog posts, chapters, or episodes.

    If you find it hard to establish a habit, though, make it part of your routine. Wake up and read a chapter or a new blog post every morning with your coffee. Listen to your money podcast of choice on the way home from work every day. Even if you just commit to fifteen minutes of financial literacy a day, it can make a difference. Habits don’t always come easy, but when it comes to learning about money, half the battle is finding relatable advice that actually makes sense to you.

    Source: http://twocents.lifehacker.com/you-d...ice-1793489761
    james.c.hendrickson@gmail.com
    202.468.6043

  • #2
    I cannot agree more in personalizing your strategy when dealing with savings or debt. It is very discouraging when you read or hear advice that make suggestions that are just not applicable to your personal situation.

    Far too many seem to think this worked for them so it must be the "right" way for all to follow in any situation there really is no One size fits ALL.

    Comment


    • #3
      Originally posted by Smallsteps View Post
      I cannot agree more in personalizing your strategy when dealing with savings or debt. It is very discouraging when you read or hear advice that make suggestions that are just not applicable to your personal situation.

      Far too many seem to think this worked for them so it must be the "right" way for all to follow in any situation there really is no One size fits ALL.
      You do realize that is how pretty much all financial books are written? They are advising you based on what worked for them. Most have a back story, then the lessons and information they learned and are passing on. lol

      Getting to the end result of reducing/eliminating debt and building up cash can be achieved in many ways and at many levels of speed. If you want to have your expensive drinks and many luxuries you can still get there, but it will take much longer and you will likely have more trouble reaching the right amount(or reaching it at all as history proves).

      The reason it is so often mentioned to get rid of those things is because we need to break the habits that got us into the mess to start with. Otherwise, you will end up there again later. I consolidated all my debt onto one card of around $12k at one point in my life. I didn't cut back on the little things I was doing with my card, so over the next couple years, I ended up filing my cards back up. I didn't change my habits, so I doubled my debt. That's why we tell people to change so much. It's to try to create a new way of thinking with new habits. Some people are just naturally more disciplined, but if you have loads of credit card debt, you shouldn't kid yourself into thinking you fall under that category.
      Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes that reason is you're stupid and make bad choices.

      Current Occupation: Spending every dollar before I die

      Comment

      Working...
      X