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    A woman who studied 600 millionaires found how rich you can get boils down to 6 'wealth factors,' no matter your age or salary
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    Anyone can become rich if they know the right steps to take.

    But if you possess a certain set of characteristics, you may be more likely to become wealthy, according to Sarah Stanley Fallaw, director of research for the Affluent Market Institute. She co-authored "The Next Millionaire Next Door: Enduring Strategies for Building Wealth," in which she surveyed more than 600 millionaires in America.

    To identify characteristics most predictive of net worth, Stanley Fallaw conducted two studies that included a group of individuals with a net worth ranging from $100,000 to $1 million and a group of high- and ultra-high-net-worth individuals.

    She found that six behaviors, which she called "wealth factors," are related to net worth potential, regardless of age or income:
    • Frugality, or a commitment to saving, spending less, and sticking to a budget
    • Confidence in financial management, investing, and household leadership
    • Responsibility, which involves accepting your role in financial outcomes and believing that luck plays little role
    • Planning, or setting goals for your financial future
    • Focus on seeing tasks through to their completion without being distracted
    • Social indifference, or not succumbing to social pressure to buy the latest thing

    Frugality came up several times during Stanley Fallaw's research — many of the millionaires she interviewed stressed the freedom that comes with spending below their means. Being frugal was one of three key ways they achieved financial independence.

    "Spending above your means, spending instead of saving for retirement, spending in anticipation of becoming wealthy makes you a slave to the paycheck, even with a stellar level of income," she wrote. To properly build wealth, experts recommend saving 20% of your income and living off the remaining 80%.

    Having confidence, another key characteristic, will help you be frugal. In a Gen Y Planning blog post, financial planner Sophia Bera wrote, "It takes confidence to live within your means."

    It also takes confidence to invest properly — instead of making investing decisions with your emotions, you should leave your investments alone and focus on a long-term investment plan, certified financial planner Shelly-Ann Ewekapreviously wrote for Business Insider.

    But you can't invest — or manage your own money — without accepting responsibility for the outcomes.

    Like Stanley Fallaw, Chris Hogan, author of "Everyday Millionaires: How Ordinary People Built Extraordinary Wealth - and How You Can Too," also found that many millionaires take on personal responsibility— and most also happen to be self-made, meaning they didn't acquire their wealth through luck.

    "[Millionaires] don't count on anyone else to make them rich, and they don't blame anyone else if they fall short," Hogan wrote. "They focus on things they can control and align their daily habits to the goals they've set for themselves."

    He also found that they're goal-oriented and hard workers, which enable them to plan financially and focus on seeing those plans through. Ninety-two percent of the millionaires he surveyed develop a long-term plan for their money, and 97% almost always achieve the goals they set for themselves.

    These behaviors make it easy for them to be socially indifferent. They resist the lifestyle creep, the tendency to spend more whenever one earns more. Essentially, they don't feel pressured "to keep up with the Joneses."

    As Hogan puts it, they "avoid distractions and the 'shiny object syndrome' the general population suffers from because millionaires aren't focused on what might make them happy today; they're focused on their long-term wealth-building plan."
    If you possess enough of the right characteristics, you may be more likely to become wealthy, regardless of your age or income.
    Last edited by amastewa93; 02-05-2019, 08:46 AM.

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    Chris Hogan is a frequent guest on Dave Ramsey's show.
    Consequently, he preaches being out of debt, being frugal, and investing in mutual funds.

    There are lots of ways to get rich outside of what he is saying, but it is still sound advice and a simple formula.
    Save, work hard, be patient = Millionaire.
    Brian

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    • #3
      Originally posted by bjl584 View Post
      Chris Hogan is a frequent guest on Dave Ramsey's show.
      Consequently, he preaches being out of debt, being frugal, and investing in mutual funds.

      There are lots of ways to get rich outside of what he is saying, but it is still sound advice and a simple formula.
      Save, work hard, be patient = Millionaire.
      Seems like solid advice!

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      • #4

        "But you can't invest — or manage your own money — without accepting responsibility for the outcomes."

        this is the most powerful statement in the article. I honestly believe that this is one of the reasons so many are in financial trouble in this country.
        Many are paralyzed into not starting saving or investing just in case they make a misjudgment or mistake.
        I also think too many people want all reward with zero risk with is a no- starter.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Smallsteps View Post
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          I also think too many people want all reward with zero risk with is a no- starter.
          That is a great point!

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          • #6
            If you want reward with no risk, buy treasury bonds. There won't be much reward, but treasuries are pretty much the least risky investment you can purchase.
            james.c.hendrickson@gmail.com
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            • #7
              So you can't be irresponsible, indifferent, and lazy and get rich?

              I need a drink.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by james.hendrickson View Post
                If you want reward with no risk, buy treasury bonds. There won't be much reward, but treasuries are pretty much the least risky investment you can purchase.
                Yes, that's how it works. Low risk = low reward. High risk = high reward (or at least the potential for it).
                Steve

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                * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
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                • #9
                  I was simply stating in my observations of many people I know. They do not want to invest because they simply are scared of the prospect of market downturns etc. Perhaps because the way downturns are covered by the MEDIA. The sky is falling narratives bring ratings.

                  Perhaps an interesting article would be why people avoid making the changes they would need to improve their financial situations.
                  All other articles exploring it take the it is not your fault and pick and chose examples so NO one would point to some basic errors that are being made.

                  I often think, yes there is a big wealth disparity in our population, but unlike some politicians that think you can tax ( 70-90%) people or perhaps confiscate items from those who have assets and then do wealth distribution,Perhaps we should focus on helping those whom need financial education and even simple steps would improve the lives of many.

                  The articles like this, while true...….. say live below your income and save that is not enough for most they need concrete steps.
                  I am amazed how many people want someone to hold their hand at every step and simply do not want to take any step on their own.
                  AGAIN this is set out to be able to blame their mentor or whomever in case things are rocky.
                  Every person is self made but only the successful ones claim it.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by TexasHusker View Post
                    So you can't be irresponsible, indifferent, and lazy and get rich?

                    I need a drink.
                    Right??

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Smallsteps View Post
                      Every person is self made but only the successful ones claim it.
                      An interesting but true point! I've made note of this with a few of my friends. Those who haven't managed to do as well after college typically blame their parents while those doing a bit better pat themselves on the back constantly. I grew up in a household where my mom constantly told us that WE control everything in our universe. If you want something to change, you work to change it, and so on...

                      We are all still quite young (I'm 26) so there's still time for things to turn around for my apathetic friends but attitude is a HUGE factor.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Smallsteps View Post
                        Every person is self made but only the successful ones claim it.
                        There is certainly truth to that, but it's never quite that simple either. We are all products of our environment and upbringing. We talked about that in the thread about being poor. It's not impossible to break that cycle but it is extremely difficult. If you are told from the day you are born that your'e worthless and unloved and will never amount to anything, that messes with your head for the rest of your life. If you are surrounded by poverty and abuse or at the very least financial irresponsibility, that's what gets ingrained for you; just the same, if your parents are loving and supportive and have their acts together and teach you well, you are far more likely to succeed.
                        Steve

                        * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
                        * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
                        * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by disneysteve View Post
                          There is certainly truth to that, but it's never quite that simple either. We are all products of our environment and upbringing. We talked about that in the thread about being poor. It's not impossible to break that cycle but it is extremely difficult. If you are told from the day you are born that your'e worthless and unloved and will never amount to anything, that messes with your head for the rest of your life. If you are surrounded by poverty and abuse or at the very least financial irresponsibility, that's what gets ingrained for you; just the same, if your parents are loving and supportive and have their acts together and teach you well, you are far more likely to succeed.
                          While there is truth or should I say example of your point . I never understood that idea. I have seen it but never understood it. I find it flawed logic.

                          For the record I was told all my money choices were wrong and I should hang on to a dead end job for the rest of my life instead of going to college (by a parent) to get something better.
                          .I bought a home at 25 when I was making very little the loan was tricky but a friend in banking helped. I bought a home that needed some help in a good neighborhood from a motivated seller. Even the realtor was amazed at what I pulled off. My mom was furious told me the house was crap...…... all while telling friends and my siblings how successful she thought I was. That type of scenario played out my whole life her insulting a car purchase then telling sibling if she was smart she would buy a type of car like I did.

                          My mother hid her money handling but it was clear it was dismal. Every idea she had about how to invest/ buy a home / finance any purchase was DEAD wrong.
                          I have three siblings who all have that defeatist attitude whom simply believe life is about LUCK nothing else.

                          Even when life showed us what was possible for example our grandmother had not worked (except early in her life) while grandpa worked, grandma invested the money.
                          When her will was processed she had a large amount to leave to all of us. 2 of the siblings spent it all in less then a year one saved some then spent over several years.
                          I reinvested into the same funds grandma had invested in. It is still in that investment.

                          I have seen many of others whom like me, who gleaned information from others that were successful.
                          They were not only willing, but often, did the exact opposite of the example of childhood experience. so I DO NOT buy that you can not break out of your upbringing.

                          My SIL came from extreme financial mishandling and poverty and with my daughters guidance is probably the most successful person in his extended family at 25. So his wife changed all the bad habits in less then 5 years of dating and then marriage.

                          as a guess I know somewhere there have been studies but I see this in my kids too

                          parents/ family = (x)% of influence in my case watching extended family proved more educational the watching my widowed mother.

                          peers/ friends = (x) % again in my case, area had a range of friends in a wide range of economic situations.

                          co-workers or other type mentors= (x)% as I joined the workforce I learned from some successful examples and began to network into areas I needed like banking or financial planning

                          spouse / partner = (x)% Dh had similar upbringing ( told he was worthless) chose to ignore and move on too We do not deal with those in family with losing attitudes.

                          everyone's % is different.
                          it is the group each person DECIDES to give more credibility to. The only thing that messes with your head is people telling you that breaking free is near impossible and that is an EXCUSE to not try.

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                          • #14
                            The book (The Next Millionaire Next Door) was an interesting read, with lots of data. Nothing super eye-opening for me since I had read the original decades ago and was quite familiar with the subject matter, but still an interesting read.

                            Did anyone else find the choice of photo to accompany the article a bit odd?

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by scfr View Post
                              The book (The Next Millionaire Next Door) was an interesting read, with lots of data. Nothing super eye-opening for me since I had read the original decades ago and was quite familiar with the subject matter, but still an interesting read.

                              Did anyone else find the choice of photo to accompany the article a bit odd?
                              Is it supposed to be spoiled rich girls at the Kentucky Derby or something?
                              Brian

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