are you remarried, divorced?

[neatdesign]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

I've been married twice. First to my HS sweetheart -- together a total of 12 years, married for 5 years. At a certain point we just figured that we could either stay married and be miserable, or divorce and remain great friends; we chose the latter. Our split was so amicable, it literally took us about 15 minutes to divide up our stuff.

Mark and I met online four years ago and married the year after that. He's from the UK so that made things a lot more complicated (and expensive!) but it's been totally worth it. This is his first marriage -- and it'd better be his last!

~ Jenney

[lillyb]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

Divorced. Remarried, five years this month. Found the right one this time.

[DayByDay]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

Married 21 years, having it's good days and bad days.

[Ima saver]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

I know some of you are single. I could not imagine being single and alone. Do you like it?? Do you hope to stay single??

[Broken Arrow]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

I actually like being single right now. However, that's being compared to how messy my divorce was. I'm also kind of a quiet guy anyway, so I do enjoy the peace and quiet. Sometimes, it does get a bit um... lonely. However, whenever I get like that, I just think about what I've had to go through when I was married, and then I... don't feel so bad!

I'm of the opinion anyway, that there is no good or bad between the two. I think it's just a matter of making the best of the situation I find myself in, regardless of what that situation is.

[Ima saver]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

I guess when you have never been apart from a person for 30 years, it seem impossible to conceive of ever being alone.

[markio26]

Re: are you remarried, divorced?

i live seperately part of the week from my spouse at times... it makes the marriage better... we are together on the weekends now... our house was flooded on ki from a defective water line to the ice maker... construction workers have still not scheduled to begin, we have check in hand from allstate??????? hope they start soon, it will take two weeks... on the bright side of things, we have had several drop ins, who showed up and we were not there and they had to shell out money to stay on the island.. the last family ( spouse's first cousin) had to rent a condo for $900 a week, and left a note.. we called him and all he did was complain about the condo being dirty.. they left it cleaner than they found it... loll......