Another terrible fire has struck my community and once again, several friends and coworkers are affected either by total loss of their home, damage or at least evacuation. I live in Colorado Springs (the fire I'm referring to is the Black Forest Fire)
My home is fine. At the end of my day, I can go to my home, with my family and animals and all my "stuff".
I feel terrible.
I want to give back, particularly to my friends and coworkers. To the point I'm willing to charge up all my credit cards to help these people out. I had to seriously stop myself today from just going to the department store and buying new blankets, towels, housewares, etc. I know how stupid that is. After the fire last year (Waldo Canyon, which also affected several friends and coworkers), I gave kind of blindly. I want to help, but I want to be smarter about it.
I've been very aggressively saving and paying down debt. My significant other and I make more than enough money per month to pay all the bills, pay extra towards debt and put some money aside for emergency savings, and still spend kind of stupidly sometimes anyway (eating out/entertainment mostly, although we are doing a heck of a lot better).
Anyway, all my problems seem insignificant right now. I still have my home, my family, my pets, my "stuff".
My question is: how do I alter my plan for a short period to help my community?? Should I give a percentage? Or designate a particular amount, and if so how do I decide what amount to give?
And frankly, how do I get over the thought that I'm being terribly selfish by even asking this question, when so many people can't even go HOME tonight??
My home is fine. At the end of my day, I can go to my home, with my family and animals and all my "stuff".
I feel terrible.
I want to give back, particularly to my friends and coworkers. To the point I'm willing to charge up all my credit cards to help these people out. I had to seriously stop myself today from just going to the department store and buying new blankets, towels, housewares, etc. I know how stupid that is. After the fire last year (Waldo Canyon, which also affected several friends and coworkers), I gave kind of blindly. I want to help, but I want to be smarter about it.
I've been very aggressively saving and paying down debt. My significant other and I make more than enough money per month to pay all the bills, pay extra towards debt and put some money aside for emergency savings, and still spend kind of stupidly sometimes anyway (eating out/entertainment mostly, although we are doing a heck of a lot better).
Anyway, all my problems seem insignificant right now. I still have my home, my family, my pets, my "stuff".
My question is: how do I alter my plan for a short period to help my community?? Should I give a percentage? Or designate a particular amount, and if so how do I decide what amount to give?
And frankly, how do I get over the thought that I'm being terribly selfish by even asking this question, when so many people can't even go HOME tonight??
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