I am getting married in April and my fiance and I are financing it. I tried to pay for it without credit but with the cost of weddings today and the new home we bought, it just wasn't possible. (Wedding actual costs are a little over $10K, less than 1/2 the cost of the "average" wedding.) I also had LASIK so I could see on my big day.
My fiancial plan was to pay off the wedding in 6-7 months, save for 4 and go on a European honeymoon to visit friends in Europe one year from the wedding. Our friends are in the military and will not be there for a long period of time.
However, I am getting extreme pressure from my 2 bosses to pursue my masters. Right now, they understand that I have no time because of my wedding. However, once the wedding is over, I think that pressure will only increase. I've tried to explain that it is a financial situation as well as a time situation. There is a program to pay for my masters; however, when it runs out of funding, which usually occurs about 1/2 through the year, you can either quit until more funding is available or cover the costs yourself (non-reimbursable). It does not cover the cost of books either. When I pursue my masters, I want to be in a position to cover all costs without any debt. Sure, I'll use the program, but I just don't want to do it with the assumption that funding will be there when I need it.
I know this pressure is only because they want to see me advance. At some point, I do care to advance. However, I started very young in my business and I am content for now. My fiance's salary varies with overtime, but I bring home double his salary w/o overtime.
Here are my debts and stats:
Mortgage: $220K
cc for wedding and LASIK: $10K
Student Loan: $7K
Own my car
Own FI's car
Have $8K in savings
FI and I both contribute substantially to 401K
My fiancial plan was to pay off the wedding in 6-7 months, save for 4 and go on a European honeymoon to visit friends in Europe one year from the wedding. Our friends are in the military and will not be there for a long period of time.
However, I am getting extreme pressure from my 2 bosses to pursue my masters. Right now, they understand that I have no time because of my wedding. However, once the wedding is over, I think that pressure will only increase. I've tried to explain that it is a financial situation as well as a time situation. There is a program to pay for my masters; however, when it runs out of funding, which usually occurs about 1/2 through the year, you can either quit until more funding is available or cover the costs yourself (non-reimbursable). It does not cover the cost of books either. When I pursue my masters, I want to be in a position to cover all costs without any debt. Sure, I'll use the program, but I just don't want to do it with the assumption that funding will be there when I need it.
I know this pressure is only because they want to see me advance. At some point, I do care to advance. However, I started very young in my business and I am content for now. My fiance's salary varies with overtime, but I bring home double his salary w/o overtime.
Here are my debts and stats:
Mortgage: $220K
cc for wedding and LASIK: $10K
Student Loan: $7K
Own my car
Own FI's car
Have $8K in savings
FI and I both contribute substantially to 401K
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