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    I'm sure you all have heard of the tornadoes that have been tearing up the midwest.

    A family I have known since birth lives in the area and one of the "kids" (who is a few years older than I) lost his home. Well, most of his home. The ground floor bathroom was the only room left in the two story house.

    He has always been self employed, doing cabinets and construction. The last 3 years have been bad, and he has had almost no work for the last year. He has worked a bit here and there for other companies to help with a job here and there, but construction in their town and those nearby has been almost nonexistent.

    To save money, he dropped his homeowners insurance about 3 months ago. It was paid for, and so he had no mortgage company to require he keep it. It was to the point, he either paid the $1200 a year premium on his home,or eat and have utilities. Last week, he lost his home. Also lost his car which had liability only on it. Right now, his car is under a pile or rubble, that was formally his home.

    We have seen his home. Everything was ruined--broken into peices, rained and hailed on, and now molded. Ruined.

    55 years old, no home, (still has the land it was sitting on, however), no possessions, no vehicle, no tools, nothing.

    He has moved to his dads home.

    Joking,he says the good news is, since 40% of the town was destroyed, there will be some construction jobs available in the next few months. Since he lost his work vehicle and tools, he will be on someone else s payroll.

    At one time, he had a years worth in savings. He has done some odd jobs here and there, repairs, and worked some at fast food, to keep the lights on and his taxes paid. He isn't the lazy sort at all-has always worked, just isn't getting what he was trained to do, had the tools to do, and at a fraction of what he made years ago.

    Can you think of starting over when you are starting to think of retirement?? It is scary!!

    He is now "sorting" his home. Lumber that he can use to rebuild goes into one pile, ruined lumber and sheet rock go into another pile for the city crews to pick up. He even has a nail can that he is throwing nails into to reuse.

  • #2
    That is tragic as are the many stories from that storm. You can only be thankful that you're still alive and those around you are safe.

    It's horrible to have to contemplate the idea of starting over at that age but that is exactly what must be done. I've always thought I could make it as long as my health was in tact. He sounds like a guy who can as well.

    Best wishes to all in the path of that storm.
    "Those who can't remember the past are condemmed to repeat it".- George Santayana.

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    • #3
      Stories like this serve as reminders of how important insurance is. My guess is that this gentleman will recover sufficiently. My uncle is still working at 75. A 55 year old can still pay for a home and build a decent nestegg by this age.

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      • #4
        It is stories like these that give me re-assurance about having paper assets that are "up in the cloud," on the internet.

        A lot of super conservative types will tell you to keep physical gold locked away in your house. Well, im sure a couple people in Joplin did that and now they are screwed.

        Anyways, good luck to your friend and tell him they will be in our prayers

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        • #5
          M-f-M, very sorry to hear this. What a difficult position he and so many others are now in. It was bad enough for him before, but now....

          MrNG, I've often thought that my scant emergency provisions might become inaccessible in the emergencies we're told to prepare for here (tornado, earthquake).
          "There is some ontological doubt as to whether it may even be possible in principle to nail down these things in the universe we're given to study." --text msg from my kid

          "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." --Frederick Douglass

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Joan.of.the.Arch View Post
            M-f-M, very sorry to hear this. What a difficult position he and so many others are now in. It was bad enough for him before, but now....

            MrNG, I've often thought that my scant emergency provisions might become inaccessible in the emergencies we're told to prepare for here (tornado, earthquake).
            Diversify your survival "portfolio." Keep a backpack with necessities in automobile or at work.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Mr Nice Guy View Post
              Diversify your survival "portfolio." Keep a backpack with necessities in automobile or at work.
              As an EMT, I work with a couple of volunteer rescue/search/recovery agencies. If you are in hurricane or tornado country, we recommend keeping supplies buried......A food grade plastic barrel works well, or better yet, build an underground shelter, earth covered, similar to a cellar and keep your provisions there. We also recommend keeping some cash in there as well-

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              • #8
                How heartbreaking. He sounds like a hard working man with a positive attitude. Praying that he and the many others that are facing many hard months ahead with rebuilding their lives find peace.

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                • #9
                  We all need to keep in perspective what life is really all about. Money and stuff and homes come and go. What is important is who we are and the relationships with others. And, i know that is easy to say coming from someone with an intact home. But, really, what other choice is there? You feel bad, it is terrible, but eventually you have to pick up and move on and enjoy the rest of your life.

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                  • #10
                    These challenges and experiences also contain lessons.

                    Coming from a country where there is no viable social security you learn to look at reducing long term risk. Today look quite rosy but what about tomorrow?

                    People must understand that they are responsible for their own lives. When looking forward it is all about risk management.

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                    • #11
                      That's awful, but at least he has a good attitude and he's right; there will be a lot of construction work in his town that will help him get back on his feet. As he begins to rebuild his life, hopefully he'll be able to rebuild his own house. I have to say that insurance doesn't seem necessary when everything is going just fine, but the purpose of it is for accidents and acts of nature. Good luck to your friend.

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