Jeffrey,
What people have said is fine for a single person, but one of the major issues I've found in trying to educate, is the complaint of the SO.
Many people have SOs that (unfortunately) have somewhat distanced themselves in what the so called "bill payer" or "money manager" in their setup, is trying to do.
Some do not, but some of us do.
Therefore, I would suggest that 1st should be to definitely try to "plan with" the SO, and not try to do it alone.
Get agreement, ask for help, have the SO do the bills every so often, etc. as much as is possible.... it should build some comfort and understanding about the reality of each families' situation.
What people have said is fine for a single person, but one of the major issues I've found in trying to educate, is the complaint of the SO.
Many people have SOs that (unfortunately) have somewhat distanced themselves in what the so called "bill payer" or "money manager" in their setup, is trying to do.
Some do not, but some of us do.
Therefore, I would suggest that 1st should be to definitely try to "plan with" the SO, and not try to do it alone.
Get agreement, ask for help, have the SO do the bills every so often, etc. as much as is possible.... it should build some comfort and understanding about the reality of each families' situation.
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