I know this does not apply to many people. For instance, my jobs have been mainly part time in medical offices or schools. I have worked my 28 or 32 hours.
My husband has always worked full time and brought home the benefits. (not to mention an hourly wage of almost double mine) while I did all the housework, cooking, and shopping etc. to make up for division of labor.
He got laid off recently. He worked in computer aided design. He typically worked about 45 hours per week. His shop typically had the option of working more hours. By more hours I means over 50. He got his work done fast and jokingly complained how he didn't want to work more to his boss. His boss let me get away with 45ish b/c he got work done fast.
However, other guys would put in over 50 and even do work slow to get the fatter paycheck.
I don't think it was wrong of my dh to value family time and a personal life over a fat paycheck so I never said anything.
I sometimes wonder if my frugality made him feel too comfortable passing the hours. I really don't care about the extra money b/c I know that's a lot of hours to put in.
Now his ex shop is putting in almost 60 hours a week mandatory and there is a possibility they might call him back to work(alto I do not know anything for sure) and we have even questioned the fact of him not liking the hours preventing a call back.
My husband has always worked full time and brought home the benefits. (not to mention an hourly wage of almost double mine) while I did all the housework, cooking, and shopping etc. to make up for division of labor.
He got laid off recently. He worked in computer aided design. He typically worked about 45 hours per week. His shop typically had the option of working more hours. By more hours I means over 50. He got his work done fast and jokingly complained how he didn't want to work more to his boss. His boss let me get away with 45ish b/c he got work done fast.
However, other guys would put in over 50 and even do work slow to get the fatter paycheck.
I don't think it was wrong of my dh to value family time and a personal life over a fat paycheck so I never said anything.
I sometimes wonder if my frugality made him feel too comfortable passing the hours. I really don't care about the extra money b/c I know that's a lot of hours to put in.
Now his ex shop is putting in almost 60 hours a week mandatory and there is a possibility they might call him back to work(alto I do not know anything for sure) and we have even questioned the fact of him not liking the hours preventing a call back.
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