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  • #46
    Originally posted by disneysteve View Post
    That's where we fundamentally disagree. Unless I was currently supporting all of those people, I wouldn't feel the need to give them money when I die? I have insurance to cover those who I do support - my wife and my daughter and that's it.

    Steve--This long standing fundamental view held by many here. I like to expand this just a bit more and to make my point. This is my last comment on this issue.

    While I may not share the view completely, this is exactly what’s wrong with “nuclear” family in general. The US in general stands for liberty and opportunity. Immigrants flock into this country for greater postures as my parents did many decades ago. We’re number one in charity giving and foreign aids to many countries. We go to war against other nation to protect our own self-interest like oils in Iraq. Yet we don’t seem provide enough relief to our own families instead we pass it on to others to pay for. Why is that? Its one thing to provide support to our own husband/wife and kids, so say we don’t care about mom and dad, brother, sister, nephew or nieces who are struggling financially themselves perhaps. It’s ironic. To say “I won’t provide them my own means of ‘thank you for raising me’ now that I’m gone…'screw you'! There is just something fundamentally cruel about this view and no matter how unintentional we are financially, limiting support only to immediate family members is missing the most important view IMO, taking care of your own family members not just your “own” helps. Those especially in needs.

    Sorry about being off topic. Off to my 1:30 meeting
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    • #47
      If my sister is struggling financially, I am not sure where you feel Americans are lacking in some core family value in that she should profit from my untimely death.

      I'm sorry. . .while I am normally one to participate in questioning the status quo. . .I just don't get it.

      I kind of know what you are saying - if the Fraternal Order of Police calls for a $50 donation telemarketing . . .apparently there are enough people who will part with their money, yet. . .maybe not help their grandchildren out with college.

      Maybe that is peculiar that people put charity before family in America whereas perhaps China or India, the family clusters all finanical wealth.

      But my sister wouldn't have any obligation to bury or cremate me or satisfy my debts. That would be born upon my wife and kids without having a father.

      Another stat while we are throwing some around - America is the most overinsured nation out there.

      We have travel insurance, accident insurance, whole life insurance, furniture extended warranties, yet. . .we are lacking insurance in health and disability as a whole, having that fall to Medicaid/Medicare and SSI.

      Essentially the insurance industry wants to sell us stuff we don't really need and the stuff we really do need. . .well. . .they don't do such a good job of administering.

      EDIT: BTW, I am just as guilty of being overinsured. When buying a piece of jewelry for wife, being a typical guy, I have gotten rooked into insuring the necklace for an extra $19.00 or whatever. Insurance unfortunately is a sales driven industry vs. needs driven.
      Last edited by Scanner; 04-08-2008, 01:14 PM.

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      • #48
        Originally posted by Scanner View Post
        If my sister is struggling financially, I am not sure where you feel Americans are lacking in some core family value in that she should profit from my untimely death.

        I'm sorry. . .while I am normally one to participate in questioning the status quo. . .I just don't get it.

        I kind of know what you are saying - if the Fraternal Order of Police calls for a $50 donation telemarketing . . .apparently there are enough people who will part with their money, yet. . .maybe not help their grandchildren out with college.

        Maybe that is peculiar that people put charity before family in America whereas perhaps China or India, the family clusters all finanical wealth.

        But my sister wouldn't have any obligation to bury or cremate me or satisfy my debts. That would be born upon my wife and kids without having a father.

        Another stat while we are throwing some around - America is the most overinsured nation out there.

        We have travel insurance, accident insurance, whole life insurance, furniture extended warranties, yet. . .we are lacking insurance in health and disability as a whole, having that fall to Medicaid/Medicare and SSI.

        Essentially the insurance industry wants to sell us stuff we don't really need and the stuff we really do need. . .well. . .they don't do such a good job of administering.

        Being a former accountant for an insurance company, the reasoning behind the part of your quote that I bolded can partially be explained by potential liability (partially, not totally). Health & disability are open-ended on the claims side (with disability claims particularly having the potential to hang on for years and years) while the others you listed are much more defined. Granted, reinsurance mitigates some of the loss potential, but reinsurance on these lines is also expensive.

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        • #49
          JIMINOK,

          I don't disagree with you at all. . .it's kind of why a lot of insurance is just a failed concept (yet in a way, makes America go around being the largest lobbying group on Capitol Hill).

          You get insurance to protect from catastrophes.

          The major catastrophes that a person will likely suffer are loss of health and/or disability. Those catastrophic events are hard to insure (for whatever reason) and probably while ultimately we should just fire the co.'s in business and make it a welfare state.

          If industry was doing a good job, that'd be another story.

          Term life insurance is an exception to the rule - for pennies, you get $1000's in coverage.

          With health and disability, for $1000's, you get pennies in coverage.
          Last edited by Scanner; 04-08-2008, 01:51 PM. Reason: typo

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          • #50
            Can someone please define term life insurance, whole life insurance, universal life insurance, etc.,?

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            • #51
              Originally posted by Scanner View Post
              I agree with DisneySteve and Sweeps here.

              It sounds like you are a budding salesperson, Lucky. . .and let me give you some advice.

              If you are going to target the uninformed and unmotivated on finances, then go about what you are saying and beleiving the way you are. Don't change a thing. I am sure managers and meetings have filled your head with this.

              Unfortunately, sales managers often don't "change with time" and with the advent of the internet. . .the times - they are "a'changing" as they say.

              If you are going to want to get clients like DisneySteve, myself, and other professionals here, you are going to have to attack us differently.

              Term insurance has an important role in a good financial plan.

              Universal and whole life may (<------ operative word, may) have a role in college planning and estate planning.

              But to suggest we buy something just because it's cheap and efficient (and I agree - term life insurance is an amazing product - $1000's of dollars of coverage for pennies). . .or just to bequeath random relatives some dough. . .just doesn't make sense.

              I find it rather puzzling actually.

              Why would I want to bequeath Cousin Jeffro or Uncle Billy Bob anything?

              It's like suggesting I buy something I don't need at the dollar store just because it's cheap.

              I had a disability insurance salesman cold call me the other day. Disability is a product I could actually use. . .but unfortunately, the hours I put in on my business are under 30 per week immediately disqualifying me (no part-time policies). Trying to salvage a sale from a lead, he asked if he could handle my investments.

              While I admire his brevity for asking that question of someone I don't know from a common criminal. . .what a large leap. . .from selling an insurance product to advising me on my financial plan.

              I politely told him all of my investments are with Charles Schwab, a discount brokerage and wished him luck.

              I wish you luck too.

              Not looking for anything..just advice and opinions. But thanks.

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              • #52
                Originally posted by cptacek View Post
                Can someone please define term life insurance, whole life insurance, universal life insurance, etc.,?
                Wikipedia offers a good explanation.

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                • #53
                  I thought life insurance was in case you dies and needed to provide for your family. How can it be an investment if you are already dead? Don't people invest money so they can use it to enjoy while they are alive?

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                  • #54
                    Originally posted by marla View Post
                    I thought life insurance was in case you dies and needed to provide for your family. How can it be an investment if you are already dead? Don't people invest money so they can use it to enjoy while they are alive?
                    Life insurance IS NOT an investment, but what the agents sell you on is the cash value of whole life policies. Part of your premium pays for the death benefit and part goes into an account and builds up over time. You can draw on that money while you're alive or, after you die, it gets added to the death benefit.
                    Steve

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                    • #55
                      Originally posted by disneysteve View Post
                      Life insurance IS NOT an investment, but what the agents sell you on is the cash value of whole life policies. Part of your premium pays for the death benefit and part goes into an account and builds up over time. You can draw on that money while you're alive or, after you die, it gets added to the death benefit.
                      Ya thats what I do with my insurance....

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