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    We spent the day at Jersey Gardens. For those not from the area, Jersey Gardens is the largest outlet mall in New Jersey. We go there about once a year as we do get some good deals, much better than at local stores or malls. The mall occupies a plot of land about the size of Rhode Island, across the road from Newark Airport.

    Anyway, I was looking at the directory while DW and DD were in one store and I couldn't help but think about why people overspend so much. There are just way too many choices of where to spend our money. Years ago, we didn't have such choice and variety. Shopping options were quite limited compared with today.

    The directory of shops certainly reflects the typical differences between men and women. There are 33 women's apparel stores, 23 for kids and just 10 selling excusively men's apparel. Got feet? There are no fewer than 33 shoe stores at the mall.

    For those who would argue that at least clothes and shoes are necessities to a point that we all need from time to time, the list doesn't stop there. Need some bling? Jersey Gardens has 22 jewelry stores. Want to smell better? There are 9 perfume stores with such creatively varied names as Perfume Boutique, Perfume Forever, Perfume Romance, Perfumania and the romantic French-sounding La Perfumerie. Do we really need all that? Perhaps your cell phone is on the fritz. There are 7 cell phone vendors on hand.

    The choice and variations of what to buy and where to buy it, I think, just encourages people to spend more and more money on stuff they probably don't really need. And this isn't limited to clothing and accessories. The same thing is true at the grocery store. In 1970, the average grocery store carried about 9,000 items. Today, that number is well over 40,000. On one supermarket trip, I counted over 200 choices in the cereal aisle alone.

    Or go to the toiletries department at Target or WalMart and see the variety of deodarants or toothpastes or shaving creams. They come in every imaginable color, style, fragrance, etc. Women, do you really care if your legs smell like mango/kiwi or strawberry/banana after you shave? Does it truly matter if your armpits evoke spring rain or summer breezes?

    There was a great book a few years ago called, I think, The Paralysis of Choice, in which the author talked about how many consumers are completely overwhelmed by the options when they go shopping and are often unable to make a decision, lest they pick the wrong thing.

    Oh, to return to a simpler time. Stores were smaller and more manageable. People were thinner (the overabundance of food choices is part of the problem behind the obesity epidemic). And shopping was far less stressful. Plus, shopping was done more out of need and less out of entertainment value.
    Steve

    * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
    * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
    * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

  • #2
    Yoou are so right, steve. That is one reason I have not gone to a mall in about 7 years. I just don't need anything but a pair of jeans or tennis shoes when i have worn out the ones I have.

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    • #3
      I was thinking the same thing when I was in Target last week. I was in the cosmetics department which I rarely venture in to ... Way too many choices, brands, colors! What I was looking for was some sunscreen to go around my eyes, and I could not find any. There are a gazillion different types of potions to fix every skin problem imaginable, but I couldn't find the one thing that would prevent damage from occuring in the first place!

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      • #4
        Originally posted by scfr View Post
        I was thinking the same thing when I was in Target last week. I was in the cosmetics department
        And have you strolled down the hair care aisle lately? Not only are there 30 or more different companies and product lines, but there are now products for every imaginable hair type. It used to be dry, normal or oily. Forget that. Now there are entire lines, not just one product, for redheads, brunettes, blondes, gray hair, curly hair, straight hair, frizzy hair, permed hair, Asian hair, African-American hair, etc. And there are numerous products within each of those categories.

        One drawback to all of this is that when you do finally select a product and find that you like it, finding it again can be a challenge. No store can possibly stock every available option. You are almost forced to keep changing what you use based on availability. That makes shopping even more frustrating.
        Steve

        * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
        * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
        * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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        • #5
          I noticed this when I ran into the store a couple of years back for a 2 litre bottle of regular pepsi and my normal toothbrush. I don't shop very much as my husband does most of it and I don't even think I could find either - LOL. I had no idea there were 50 kinds of pepsi and 50 kinds of crest toothpaste (so it seemed). IT would drive me absolutely nuts to go shopping. plus lately it seems like everyone has been changing up names and packaging so it is harder to find the tried and true.

          I can't believe there are so many stores devoted to just perfume. I don't remember the last time I Was in a mall...

          Of course this is why I mostly like online shopping. Easy to find things. But not necessarily practical for the day-to-day things either.

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          • #6
            Perhaps I heard this wrong, but wasn't there a time when being a consumer was actually taboo? The 1800's or so? We have done a 180!

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            • #7
              Originally posted by SnoopyCool View Post
              Perhaps I heard this wrong, but wasn't there a time when being a consumer was actually taboo? The 1800's or so? We have done a 180!
              This data comes from an article I had published in 1995 so it is outdated, but addresses your point.

              "The average American consumes twice as many goods and services as he/she did in 1950 and ten times more than in 1929."

              So yes, 100 years ago, people simply didn't use that much stuff. They lived very simple lives, getting by perfectly fine with the true essentials.
              Steve

              * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
              * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
              * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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              • #8
                The President, in one of his recent press conferences, said that China "needs to transition from a society of savers to a society of consumers." Of course, no mention that maybe we should save more.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by humandraydel View Post
                  The President, in one of his recent press conferences, said that China "needs to transition from a society of savers to a society of consumers." Of course, no mention that maybe we should save more.
                  because it's worked so well for america, right?

                  sheesh...

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by SnoopyCool View Post
                    Perhaps I heard this wrong, but wasn't there a time when being a consumer was actually taboo? The 1800's or so? We have done a 180!
                    I remember reading the Little House book series when I was a kid and finding it strange the way she would identify the things that were "boughten" as if it were strange or unusual. Things sure have changed.

                    In general I prefer more choice to less, but that's just because I have a rebellious bent. I will say, however, my ability to negotiate all of those choices is one of the first things to go when I get stressed.

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                    • #11
                      That's why when I find one brand/product I like, I generally stick to it. It's too much work to research and buy and try another brand out only to find that I liked the original one better.

                      I also do this with restaurants. If there's one dish that's REALLY good, I always order that when I go to the restaurant. I wear one brand of foundation. I only buy my work pants at 1 or 2 places. I might be passing up some deals in the process, but it also saves me from buying something that doesn't work.

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                      • #12
                        I don't think avoiding the choices is good for the wallet or for quality, but it sure is my route!

                        We read every package of bread at the store, discounting the white and honey wheat we came up with about 10 whole wheat varietys. Of those, one did not contain high fructose corn syrup.....Good thing there was ten, cause we needed that tenth...on the other hand, junk food could do with less variety.

                        I used to rarely eat candy bars, cause for some reason I was under the impression there were about 3, nestles crunch, Hershey's, and reeses cups....Now I do love all three, but there are only so many times you can eat the same three in one day.....Then I met my husband, not only do I eat a larger variety of food period, I found out about payday bars, and dark choclate bars, and carmel filled ones, and almond joy without the almonds..whatever they are called. Not so good for my waist line!

                        Fruit is the same, I often felt restrained to apples (red and too sweet) bananas (very expensive) and strawberries (only good fresh with whipped cream) and how many apples can one eat in a week?

                        I now know there are green apples, and yellow, and varietys of red, much better tasting, plus there are berries, rasberries, peaches without the sugar syrup, and pears with it, mangos, oranges, or tangerines, or clementines...


                        What I am babbling about is that variety is good when it is healthy, and not so good when it isn't, so put up some blinders on what you don't need, and enjoy variety for what you do need.... and in the middle, find a middle.

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                        • #13
                          choice and its consequences

                          All this choice--grapes from South Africa and perishables from halfway around the world comes with its environmental consequences too. And the fuel costs for transporting all this stuff!
                          Sometimes it's wonderful--but locally grown usually tastes better!
                          Granted though, in the Midwest that's not always possible.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by PrincessPerky View Post
                            bananas (very expensive)
                            Just curious how much bananas are in your area. Around here, they are probably the cheapest fruit you can find. We pay 39 cents/pound. Apples, grapes, cherries, strawberries, oranges, whatever are all considerably more expensive.
                            Steve

                            * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
                            * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
                            * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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                            • #15
                              Bananas here are cheaper than most of the other fruits too. I'm in BC (Canada) and lots of fruit grows here and the locally grown stuff is usually a lot more expensive than things like bananas and even sometimes imported pineapples, etc. Go figure.

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