Blessed curve ball to my budget

I have a 2 week old, my first. Congrats!

[Joan.of.the.Arch]

My heart just drops to the floor, Radiance. I'm so sorry you've lost your baby.

I'm bothered about your bad experience in the doctor's office. What a horrible thing.

[Radiance]

Thank you dear Joan,

Everybody tells me I am handling this very well. I'll be ok.

I take strengh in God who is always there for me, my support network here on earth and the power of grieving. I have gone through all that I lost with this loss, all the little and not so little dreams and I have cried them good bye. It is very healthful to do so, to acknowledge all the hurt.

Then it is so easy to look around and recognize my blessings and be so very thankful for them. Nothing taken for granted.

It also takes time so I am trying to be gentle with myself, this is the tough part for me. I keep on hurrying myself up and that is just not what will happen. Slow down woman, that is what I say to myself several times a day.... 1,2,3, breathe, slow down. sigh.

Thank you for listening.

[creditcardfree]

Seek out counseling or a support group if you feel you need it. And, yes, do take care of yourself! That part is so important.

[PetMom]

I am so sorry for your loss and in the way you were treated so rudely.

I sure hope you complained to the Dr. about how you were treated by his staff, even if through a letter if he will not take your calls. This is disturbing this could happen.

Maybe better option: consumer feedback on medical websites that now have Dr./office evaluations - maybe write your review on one of those especially of the noncaring staff and your experience with them.