I am a pharmacist, my wife is an optometrist, currently 31 y/o who will be mortgage free and debt free at 32.
By the time my wife and I are 32, her 176k worth of student loans will be 0, and I will have about 350k in equity (because my house is paid off).
Now we are not parents, but my parents inspired us to be as debt free as possible since the moment we landed in the U.S 25 years ago.
25 years ago, my dad owed 3500 dollars worth of debt to come here, started out with 0, spoke broken English, and washed dishes after his full time job. My mom and I arrived just a year later, with zero English speaking skills, living in a 300 sqft apt with others as roommates(this is FL, so living expenses was really cheap). My mom soon took a dish washing job, working 60 hours a week to put food on the table. We did not use the A/C during the hot summer months, went out to eat twice a year, and our monthly expenses were 400 dollars/month(this includes utilities, food, and rent in 1990). She made sure we saved 70%of all earnings every month.
Fast forward a few years, we finally had enough for a house with 20% down, then my mom decided to put every cent into the house so we didn't have to pay the 8% interest rate(in 1998).
Eventually we bought a motel at 500k, selling the house to make a 35% down payment. With this motel, my parents did not hire anyone(28 room motel), and worked practically 16 hours/day 7days/week so they can pay off the motel in 2 years (interest was 10%!). Eventually they did, sold it, and retired at 46.
My dad guided me to pick one out of 3 majors before going to the university (Medicine, Pharmacy, Bio Medical Engineer). He did not want me to chase my dream and end up paying for a degree that is worthless (ie. Liberal Arts). Because I followed their exact guidance, they paid for all my living expenses and tuition. I wasted no time, ended up as a pharmacist making 115k/year at age 24 yo. I am not a genius, in fact my first SAT score was 1150 out of 1600.
Currently my parents are still mentoring my finances, calling me out if I am wasteful because I have a mortgage. She taught me that mortgage is not a good debt, it's just debt..I need to pay it off or else I'll just end up giving the banks my money for nothing.
I have influenced my wife to do the same, pay off all her debt before even thinking about buying a fancy..anything. Our current projection is to have no mortgage and 1 mil of liquid cash in the bank(excluding 401k, etc) by 40.
If you are a parent currently struggling, I want you to learn from this story. My parents were not anyone special, in fact they had the disadvantage of not knowing the language. There's really NO excuse to be in the state that you are in with this great land of opportunity. YOU have to set a GOOD example for your children. There's no such thing as "I need to maintain my standard of living because I'm middle class". You do what you have to do, no matter how painful it is, or else your children and children's children will never be free from financial slavery.
Put down that 13 dollar martini, cancel your 200 dollar cable bill, and there's no such thing as a "dream car".
My wife and I make 280k/year, we eat out with coupons, go to Aldi, use portable electric heaters, drive 12 year old cars, and NEVER touch the bar outside of our house. We looked so poor that the Hyundia dealership didn't even want to greet us. There's really no shame in this, because we know that eventually we will be millionaires all due to good financial decisions.
Summary
-We made it this far because we make sacrifices..we did not and will not live like millionaires just because we make good money.
-My wife and I grew up in poor families with language disadvantages and little education, but they taught us how to save and make good financial decisions.
-We used higher education wisely. No time was wasted, and good majors were picked.Make sure you TELL your children what to do before they rack up 100k worth of debt, ends up working as a bank teller making 10 dollars/hr. If they refuse to do any of the majors you picked, then maybe college is NOT for them. A bank teller with 0 debt is better than a bank teller with a college education and 100k worth of debt!
-We did not strike rich from the lottery, or ended up with some obscure rare job like a NBA player. We are not particularly smarter than the average Joe.
-Lastly we pay everything off as fast as we can. We use credit cards just to rack up points, and put every cent into our mortgage and student loans.
Thanks for reading!
By the time my wife and I are 32, her 176k worth of student loans will be 0, and I will have about 350k in equity (because my house is paid off).
Now we are not parents, but my parents inspired us to be as debt free as possible since the moment we landed in the U.S 25 years ago.
25 years ago, my dad owed 3500 dollars worth of debt to come here, started out with 0, spoke broken English, and washed dishes after his full time job. My mom and I arrived just a year later, with zero English speaking skills, living in a 300 sqft apt with others as roommates(this is FL, so living expenses was really cheap). My mom soon took a dish washing job, working 60 hours a week to put food on the table. We did not use the A/C during the hot summer months, went out to eat twice a year, and our monthly expenses were 400 dollars/month(this includes utilities, food, and rent in 1990). She made sure we saved 70%of all earnings every month.
Fast forward a few years, we finally had enough for a house with 20% down, then my mom decided to put every cent into the house so we didn't have to pay the 8% interest rate(in 1998).
Eventually we bought a motel at 500k, selling the house to make a 35% down payment. With this motel, my parents did not hire anyone(28 room motel), and worked practically 16 hours/day 7days/week so they can pay off the motel in 2 years (interest was 10%!). Eventually they did, sold it, and retired at 46.
My dad guided me to pick one out of 3 majors before going to the university (Medicine, Pharmacy, Bio Medical Engineer). He did not want me to chase my dream and end up paying for a degree that is worthless (ie. Liberal Arts). Because I followed their exact guidance, they paid for all my living expenses and tuition. I wasted no time, ended up as a pharmacist making 115k/year at age 24 yo. I am not a genius, in fact my first SAT score was 1150 out of 1600.
Currently my parents are still mentoring my finances, calling me out if I am wasteful because I have a mortgage. She taught me that mortgage is not a good debt, it's just debt..I need to pay it off or else I'll just end up giving the banks my money for nothing.
I have influenced my wife to do the same, pay off all her debt before even thinking about buying a fancy..anything. Our current projection is to have no mortgage and 1 mil of liquid cash in the bank(excluding 401k, etc) by 40.
If you are a parent currently struggling, I want you to learn from this story. My parents were not anyone special, in fact they had the disadvantage of not knowing the language. There's really NO excuse to be in the state that you are in with this great land of opportunity. YOU have to set a GOOD example for your children. There's no such thing as "I need to maintain my standard of living because I'm middle class". You do what you have to do, no matter how painful it is, or else your children and children's children will never be free from financial slavery.
Put down that 13 dollar martini, cancel your 200 dollar cable bill, and there's no such thing as a "dream car".
My wife and I make 280k/year, we eat out with coupons, go to Aldi, use portable electric heaters, drive 12 year old cars, and NEVER touch the bar outside of our house. We looked so poor that the Hyundia dealership didn't even want to greet us. There's really no shame in this, because we know that eventually we will be millionaires all due to good financial decisions.
Summary
-We made it this far because we make sacrifices..we did not and will not live like millionaires just because we make good money.
-My wife and I grew up in poor families with language disadvantages and little education, but they taught us how to save and make good financial decisions.
-We used higher education wisely. No time was wasted, and good majors were picked.Make sure you TELL your children what to do before they rack up 100k worth of debt, ends up working as a bank teller making 10 dollars/hr. If they refuse to do any of the majors you picked, then maybe college is NOT for them. A bank teller with 0 debt is better than a bank teller with a college education and 100k worth of debt!
-We did not strike rich from the lottery, or ended up with some obscure rare job like a NBA player. We are not particularly smarter than the average Joe.
-Lastly we pay everything off as fast as we can. We use credit cards just to rack up points, and put every cent into our mortgage and student loans.
Thanks for reading!
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