Hi all,
I think this might be my third total post...please excuse my low post count as I have spent time reading most of the posts since I found this site. I love it here and can only express gratitude for everyone telling their stories (even though it is probably hard for some to bare their truths) and others for weighing in when appropriate.
I'm not really sure why I am posting- Not so sure I want help or advise, or maybe I do? possibly a little encouragement? I'm not sure, but I find the desire to post this...
Been separated for 5 years, divorced for two. In debt to the tune of 47,000. I make good money and have plenty left over from where my actual costs including debt service end and my take home finishes at. The difference has been partied away in my second youth (pre-mid-life crisis I guess you could call it)
I switched locations and made a promise to myself to fix it. Got to washington state and started to really look at my bills/debts/income. I got really angry with the guy in the mirror...wow am I stupid!!! I've had the means, knowledge, intelligence, etc. but never acted on it, even though I knew better!!!
That realization sent me on a bit of a search, and here I am now.
Here is what I have learned and begun to do and plan to do...
I focused, set limits, and picked a number that I was sure I could be comfortable with- and then added it to the amount I pay towards debt service. (basically cutting out "partying" on weekends at bars and stuff). I used that "extra" per month along with the basic min-payment for each debt/balance/interest rate in the calculators at bankrate dot com. That gave me some idea of what each bill would take to pay off in terms of months.
I have one loan that the min payment is 420 a month.
The rest are credit cards with various levels of interest. two at about 24%, two at about 9.9, and one at 4% for the next year then goes to 9.9.
I decided to focus on the 420 a month loan. It will be gone in total inside 8 months (really sooner, more on that later). I chose it because it will then yield an "extra" payment factor that is very large so each month when I use it towards the other cards I will see a significant drop in the balance.
My magic number turned out to be 600 a month. When I build this plan earlier this month I was thinking all along that I would start it in September...I also built it using a month here and there between the finish of one cc and starting on the next. The initial plan had me finishing in just under 2 and 1/2 years.
Then my check came in and I couldn't hold myself back. I dumped what I could on the loan, designated portions of it for next months bills and managed to cover all expected issues and at the same time start the 600 plus up one month early.
This motivates me more. I have seen that significant drop in the first balance. I see that I am doing ok with my typical daily spending and do not see a crunch at the end of the pay period. Basically, I am comfortable with the cash I have for the remainder of the month and I was able to score an additional 600 towards bills, pretty much directly from the second paycheck of the month.
This has led me to look at my next paycheck, where the money will go and what will be left over. You know what? I found that I will have extra money that I did not expect in the first round of calculations- what I am afraid of now is that I will get too eager too early in the pay cycle to push that "extra" into the bill and then be stuck with less in my checking than I actually need.
That is new for me- worrying that I will pay too much on a bill?
What I did not reveal just yet is, every year I receive a windfall bonus on October 2nd. It comes like the sun- predictably. BUT- I didn't factor it in at all in my calculations/budgeting...
Some of it will go towards bill reduction. Some of it will go towards the kids presents. Some of it will be paid forward for yearly type bills (that are already factored into my budget, but will release that line item to allow for it to be added to the plus 600). Insurance for the car, registration, etc.
All told, I am extremely excited. I think I have a plan that gets me to debt free in two years, less if I use the bonus money more in the process of getting debt free.
My next dragon to slay will be the concept of "emergency fund", what I call "big purchase fund", IRA and TSP contributions. Striking a happy medium to satisfy those will be my goal.
Thanks again for such a warm board and helping me (even though we didn't specifically talk!)
be good!
I think this might be my third total post...please excuse my low post count as I have spent time reading most of the posts since I found this site. I love it here and can only express gratitude for everyone telling their stories (even though it is probably hard for some to bare their truths) and others for weighing in when appropriate.
I'm not really sure why I am posting- Not so sure I want help or advise, or maybe I do? possibly a little encouragement? I'm not sure, but I find the desire to post this...
Been separated for 5 years, divorced for two. In debt to the tune of 47,000. I make good money and have plenty left over from where my actual costs including debt service end and my take home finishes at. The difference has been partied away in my second youth (pre-mid-life crisis I guess you could call it)
I switched locations and made a promise to myself to fix it. Got to washington state and started to really look at my bills/debts/income. I got really angry with the guy in the mirror...wow am I stupid!!! I've had the means, knowledge, intelligence, etc. but never acted on it, even though I knew better!!!
That realization sent me on a bit of a search, and here I am now.
Here is what I have learned and begun to do and plan to do...
I focused, set limits, and picked a number that I was sure I could be comfortable with- and then added it to the amount I pay towards debt service. (basically cutting out "partying" on weekends at bars and stuff). I used that "extra" per month along with the basic min-payment for each debt/balance/interest rate in the calculators at bankrate dot com. That gave me some idea of what each bill would take to pay off in terms of months.
I have one loan that the min payment is 420 a month.
The rest are credit cards with various levels of interest. two at about 24%, two at about 9.9, and one at 4% for the next year then goes to 9.9.
I decided to focus on the 420 a month loan. It will be gone in total inside 8 months (really sooner, more on that later). I chose it because it will then yield an "extra" payment factor that is very large so each month when I use it towards the other cards I will see a significant drop in the balance.
My magic number turned out to be 600 a month. When I build this plan earlier this month I was thinking all along that I would start it in September...I also built it using a month here and there between the finish of one cc and starting on the next. The initial plan had me finishing in just under 2 and 1/2 years.
Then my check came in and I couldn't hold myself back. I dumped what I could on the loan, designated portions of it for next months bills and managed to cover all expected issues and at the same time start the 600 plus up one month early.
This motivates me more. I have seen that significant drop in the first balance. I see that I am doing ok with my typical daily spending and do not see a crunch at the end of the pay period. Basically, I am comfortable with the cash I have for the remainder of the month and I was able to score an additional 600 towards bills, pretty much directly from the second paycheck of the month.
This has led me to look at my next paycheck, where the money will go and what will be left over. You know what? I found that I will have extra money that I did not expect in the first round of calculations- what I am afraid of now is that I will get too eager too early in the pay cycle to push that "extra" into the bill and then be stuck with less in my checking than I actually need.
That is new for me- worrying that I will pay too much on a bill?
What I did not reveal just yet is, every year I receive a windfall bonus on October 2nd. It comes like the sun- predictably. BUT- I didn't factor it in at all in my calculations/budgeting...
Some of it will go towards bill reduction. Some of it will go towards the kids presents. Some of it will be paid forward for yearly type bills (that are already factored into my budget, but will release that line item to allow for it to be added to the plus 600). Insurance for the car, registration, etc.
All told, I am extremely excited. I think I have a plan that gets me to debt free in two years, less if I use the bonus money more in the process of getting debt free.
My next dragon to slay will be the concept of "emergency fund", what I call "big purchase fund", IRA and TSP contributions. Striking a happy medium to satisfy those will be my goal.
Thanks again for such a warm board and helping me (even though we didn't specifically talk!)
be good!
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