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Originally posted by minnie1928 View PostIf you start a new post regarding your taxes, please post the link to it here.
Once you've completed your taxes using Turbo Tax, print it out and compare each line item to what your original tax return said. Mark the lines that are different so that you can see them easily. Then go to: Tax Topics - Topic 308 Amended Returns. There you will find the form that you need to complete in order to amend your original return. It's pretty easy, basically there are 3 columns to fill out: original figure used, corrected figure, difference between the two.
I did this last year for my parents taxes and it was painless. I was pleasantly surprised how easy it was to amend a return.
I tried doing that and it kept coming out wrong, so I resubmitted by e-file and I'm going into one of the local IRS offices today to have them cancel the other one. It was JUST received via mail so I don't think it will be too much hassle.
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Originally posted by jIM_Ohio View Postnicole-
"as needed" is not a way to budget.
A budget shows the same expenses every month for 6-12 months. It is not the same thing as balancing a checkbook and making sure you have the money to make ends meet.
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Originally posted by skylovessea View PostI understand what you mean, but we simply can't afford to do car maintenance. We have to save up just to do it. I don't have a budget for it because we haven't done it since we started tracking expenses. When we get our tax refund we are getting our car checked out because we can afford it. Until we make more money, we won't be able to afford routine car maintenance. That's why we don't use it a lot.
One thing you could do, if you have not done it already, is create a budget for your expected tax refund: How much will go to pay late rent? How much will go to pay down debt? How much will be set aside for car maintenance, etc. My recommendation is that you make a plan for how to best spend every penny BEFORE the check arrives. That way, none of it will slip through your fingers.
As far as affording routine car maintenance, I think you'll discover that it's much more affordable to pay for the routine stuff on schedule rather than getting stuck with a huge repair bill down the road. I hope you'll seriously consider finding a way to make room in your budget for it. Hopefully you can set aside some of that tax refund for this purpose and not touch it.
Truly, the best thing you can do is sit down and and come up with a plan, and then do the hard work to follow through with it.
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Originally posted by wincrasher View PostImpatience is what got them into their situation in the first place.
A baby at 18? Are you kidding me!?
But what's done is done, I guess.
From the posts I've read, they are not ready or able to be out on their own yet - the smart move would be to live with one set of parents or the other until they have enough saved to make a decent home.
A husband who quits his job because of "ethical problems" when he has a wife and baby at home, no money, can't pay the rent, etc.? Are you kidding me!?
Having to rely on public assistance, food stamps, whatever when his family is supposedly all wealthy or well-off? Makes me want to say really mean things.
Yes this is young to have a baby but that does not make her a irresponsible person. Bet if you ask alot of people on here they could have been in the same boat!
With that said I just want to say how proud I am of you to be only 19 and working to get and stay out of debt. I know alot of 19 year olds who only live life no tom. so congrats and I hope you reach your goals.
Do you work or only your husband? You might consider working part time at home just to help out. I have been working for 4 years from home and don't make as much as hubby but mine pays for the groceries, formula and diapers!
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Originally posted by workingmamma View PostYes this is young to have a baby but that does not make her a irresponsible person. Bet if you ask alot of people on here they could have been in the same boat!
With that said I just want to say how proud I am of you to be only 19 and working to get and stay out of debt. I know alot of 19 year olds who only live life no tom. so congrats and I hope you reach your goals.
Do you work or only your husband? You might consider working part time at home just to help out. I have been working for 4 years from home and don't make as much as hubby but mine pays for the groceries, formula and diapers!
Thank you. I'm glad you see it that way. It's hard being a young mother. Not because I'm growing up fast (that's never been a problem for me) but because I get judged left and right and people think that my family was "an accident". It's very frustrating.
Only my husband works. We won't put our son in childcare (I saw my sister deal with more than I could handle) and I have yet to find a legit SAH job. Everything I have found is a scam, and I don't have anything to provide as far as products or services that I could sell from home.
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Have you considered working opposite shifts from your DH? That will give you some traction in your budget and spending/saving goals?
This might be necessary for at least 1 year to get yourself stabilized. After that maybe you could stay at home.
Or perhaps consider watching someone else's baby along with your own?
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Originally posted by LivingAlmostLarge View PostHave you considered working opposite shifts from your DH? That will give you some traction in your budget and spending/saving goals?
This might be necessary for at least 1 year to get yourself stabilized. After that maybe you could stay at home.
Or perhaps consider watching someone else's baby along with your own?
I've posted babysitting services on CL as well but I've never gotten any replies.
Thank you for the ideas!
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Originally posted by skylovessea View PostI've posted babysitting services on CL as well but I've never gotten any replies.Steve
* Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
* Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
* There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.
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Originally posted by disneysteve View PostI think that would be the easiest thing to pursue. So CL hasnt panned out. Advertise other places. Tell all your friends and family. See if your husband can post an ad on the bulletin board at work. Does the supermarket have a community board with ads? Is there a YMCA or other community center that would let you post an ad? How about the local paper? Local churches? Don't limit yourself to Craigslist. There are plenty of other places you could be advertising. Babysitting is always in demand.
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It seems like things aren't so bad. Your debt seems to be mostly college tuition isn't that deferred til you graduate. people have come out of college with a lot more than 10,000 in debt. you could never rent a house for that little near where I live. I don't think and I am a kind person that I would want a family of three coming to live with me for only 400 I wouldn't do anything to jeapardize that if I were you. I really think you have answered your own ?s cause the things you stated in the beginning do not make an adult it is the things you stated recently that you are doing that make you an adult. I am so jealous cause you are only 19 and have found this site and are trying to do the right thing. If you start investing now I dont think there is any way you will not be a millionaire when you retire. You are way ahead of most your age. You will be fine.
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Originally posted by Hot dog View PostIt seems like things aren't so bad. Your debt seems to be mostly college tuition isn't that deferred til you graduate. people have come out of college with a lot more than 10,000 in debt. you could never rent a house for that little near where I live. I don't think and I am a kind person that I would want a family of three coming to live with me for only 400 I wouldn't do anything to jeapardize that if I were you. I really think you have answered your own ?s cause the things you stated in the beginning do not make an adult it is the things you stated recently that you are doing that make you an adult. I am so jealous cause you are only 19 and have found this site and are trying to do the right thing. If you start investing now I dont think there is any way you will not be a millionaire when you retire. You are way ahead of most your age. You will be fine.
I would love to be able to pay off debt in a couple years so that I can start investing. Especially because I'm young. You are right, if I start early, I could have so much money invested by the time my son gets out on his own.
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Sky, what about talking to playgroup moms? Maybe you can help with their friend's children. One woman blogger get $25/week for picking up an older child from the bus stop until the mom gets home. Like 1 hour a day/4 days a week. Not a large amount, but like she said it's easy peasy.
It's a neighbor's kid actually. You could put out the word. I know many people who work longer than daycare is open and have trouble getting there at 6 pm. What if you offered pickup and drop off at daycare as an alternative?
Definitely ask around at church. Also suggest you can watch kids at night if a couple would like a date night! Or weekends if they want to run errands for say 2-3 hours during the week even while your DH works, then bus it home or something.
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Originally posted by workingmamma View PostYes this is young to have a baby but that does not make her a irresponsible person. Bet if you ask alot of people on here they could have been in the same boat!
With that said I just want to say how proud I am of you to be only 19 and working to get and stay out of debt. I know alot of 19 year olds who only live life no tom. so congrats and I hope you reach your goals.
Do you work or only your husband? You might consider working part time at home just to help out. I have been working for 4 years from home and don't make as much as hubby but mine pays for the groceries, formula and diapers!
I understand your frustration on finding a legit work at home job. I have been doing this for almost 5 years and I could tell story after story on scams but I can also tell you that I now use a great database that has thousands of leads that are no money required leads and they are legit. I love it because it not only gave me the leads but has live customer support if needed. If interested I would be glad to help you get set up with the database. Just send me a message and I will send you all the information.
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