Thanks for all the great advice - we're going to start paying directly
McCarty Girl: Our mortgage is with Washington Mutual - check with your lender directly in case they have a different process. The first thing WM did was make sure that our loan was eligible to pay directly (e.g., must be a conventional loan, must have >20% equity, etc.). If it qualifies, you sign and return a waiver form stating that you want to pay directly. It takes up to 60 days (why so long I have no idea) to close the escrow account, at which time they send you a check for any money remaining in the account. You then call your town tax office and insurance company and tell them you want them to bill you directly. Seems pretty simple, and will save me over $50/month.
I live in Bergen County New Jersey. The housing prices have gone through the roof (luckily after I bought mine!) and the property taxes are huge. Also, the County is making each of the towns go through a reassessment, given that it's been >10 years since the last one. Our town is doing ours later this year, but based on the experience of other towns around me, I'm expecting my property taxes to go up another 40% (yikes) beginning in 2007. Gives me some time to figure out how I'll make up the difference!