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Old 08-05-2008, 08:42 PM
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I hope I am not coming across on producing an essay on why you shouldn't tithe or whether there should or should not be tithing.

I accept it as part of doing business for the churches. And if you tithe, I'm sure you feel you are getting your money's worth in services performed and so on.

I am only saying that personally, I cannot ethically go to church if I feel I haven't paid my way like the rest of the congregation (or what is required of me). Perhaps that is one of the seven deadly sins talking (pride, right?) but it just doesn't feel right.

I have actually thought of using the hospitals chaplain though, since I assume he is payrolled and an "employee benefit." (I recently had to care for a child abuse case at the hospital I work at and it kind of got to me)

I don't feel compelled to go to church for social networking/comraderie/fellowship.

That was actually another topic I wrestled with when I was first in business. My ex-partner said I should go join a church so I could meet people and they could become patients. I just didn't feel right doing that but I do know a lot of people do that and some religions are more "fraternal" than others (Mormons, Jews, Christian evangelicals.) in that regard and I probably left some "lost opportunity" on the table.

In that sense, tithing could be considered a good business expense (and a write-off to boot )

How's that for a financial analysis of something usually very spiritual?
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I don't feel compelled to go to church for social networking/comraderie/fellowship.

That was actually another topic I wrestled with when I was first in business. My ex-partner said I should go join a church so I could meet people and they could become patients. I just didn't feel right doing that but I do know a lot of people do that and some religions are more "fraternal" than others (Mormons, Jews, Christian evangelicals.) in that regard and I probably left some "lost opportunity" on the table.
When our kids were first ready to go to the dentist I had to ask around to find one..turns out the one we liked goes to our church, I didn't know that because they went to the late service (and the mom had breast cancer, so at the hospital chaplain more than here...) Regardless my point is, they didn't get my business because they went to our church (the mother recommending them didn't go to ouyr church either!

Not all churches are about the networking, or the money, some are unfortunatly, and finding the right one is a royal PIA..I spent 4 years church shopping...pain in the ...., but we did finally find this one. (and they still are not perfect)
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Not all churches are about the networking, or the money, some are unfortunatly, and finding the right one is a royal PIA..I spent 4 years church shopping...pain in the ...., but we did finally find this one. (and they still are not perfect)
Same for synagogues. We also shopped around and ended up in a congregation about 20 minutes from home even though there are probably 6 that are closer to us.
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"I am only saying that personally, I cannot ethically go to church if I feel I haven't paid my way like the rest of the congregation (or what is required of me). Perhaps that is one of the seven deadly sins talking (pride, right?) but it just doesn't feel right."

Are you sure it is the tithing that makes you feel uncomfortable? I do not pay my way in church.
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Are you sure it is the tithing that makes you feel uncomfortable? I do not pay my way in church.
No, tithng is only part of it. . .I dunno. . .maybe 50% among other factors.
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No, tithng is only part of it. . .I dunno. . .maybe 50% among other factors.
That's interesting. Does the thought of church make you angry, bitter, sad, or the whole idea of church in general?
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