Need some advice...

[parafly]

Scanner, I can't read the original post at this point, but your first response seems reasonable to me.

To the original poster, this is an internet forum and you have to expect mild criticism at times. If you can't take the punches, then don't get in the ring.

[maat55]

I think the orig. poster is being to touchy feely about his situation. Sometimes getting good advice is like getting a boot in the butt. He needs to realize that people can hear things he doesn't know he is saying. I hope like everyone else here that he finds his way out of this mess, but he is going to get dirty on the way out.