trigrl,
My first two prioities would be emergency fund and retirement. Here is why:
I agree with the emergency fund for 3-6 months worth of expenses.
Your retirement savings are a little low, too. I would make
at least 10% contribution a priority. 10% of 130K would be $1083.00 per month. Will you have a pension when you retire? When I was your age most folks expected to get a pension and the general rule was 10% retirement savings to suppliment the pension. If you are funding your own retirement I think in general 20% is probably a more realistic target ( and it could be even higher depending on your personal circumstances). If you are currently earning 130K right now, you will most likely be making far more than that by the time you retire with pay increases and promotions. You will be looking to replace a percentage of your final salary when you retire (whatever that turns out to be--even if your income only kept up with a 2% inflation rate, a $130,000 income would be $287,045 40 years from now--and realistically your earnings potential is probably light years higher than just keeping up with inflation!). One huge advantage you have is time is on your side--you have quite a few years of compounded earnings to look forward to to help meet your savings objectives.
Here is a link to a financial planning calculator You can enter some different variables in to get an idea of target savings goals based on different incomes and different increases and saving objectives.
If you and/or your spouse have a 401K, are you making contributions so that you are maxing out the employer contributions?
Another place you can save for retirement is a Roth. ($4,000 for you and $4,000 for your spouse). In 2008, it rises to $5,000 each. I believe it is a good idea to take advantage of these contributions because they are finite--you are not allowed to make up for past years when you didn't make the maximum contribution (--except for the grace period for the previous year up to your tax deadline date) The other factor is Roths contributions start to phase out after 150K (MAGI) and completely phased out with incomes above 160K (MAGI). (Based on your current income You qualify now, but you may not for too many more years. )
If there was any money left over after the first two saving priorities, I would look at building up another savings fund which would cover the expenses involved with selling the current house and buying the larger home. Hopefully you have enough room in your current home that you could weather a market downturn and wait for a better time to sell. The savings fund would cover upkeep and repair work needed to be done on your current home to keep it in selling condition. If it turns out that you have money left over after you sell your current home and buy your new home, you could use it for decorating your new home or putting it towards the down payment or moving expenses or closing costs, et'c.... ( If you decide not to move, you could always put the accumulated funds towards the second mortgage at some point in the furture. )