"Credit buying is much like being drunk. The buzz happens immediately and gives you a lift.... The hangover comes the day after." - Joyce Brothers
logo

Go Back   Saving Advice > Financial Chit Chat > Personal Finance

Personal Finance Credit cards, home loans, retirement plans and taxes. The place for all your personal finance questions.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 06:32 AM
disneysteve's Avatar
disneysteve disneysteve is offline
$ Saving Guru
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 16,311
Last Blog Entry: March 2012 Survey Income
Points: 99411.30
Donate
Default Anyone else have a boss who is lousy with money?

I get so frustrated at work. I work in a small business and the owner, my boss, is absolutely lousy at managing money. Fortunately, I have no ownership interest in the business, though sometimes I wish I did so that I could have more say about how things are done.

This is a guy who is always buying stupid stuff, toys, etc., but at the same time bought our building 4 years ago and has yet to finish the remodeling of the 2nd floor so he can rent it out. In the process, he's losing a potential $1,500/month in rental income. He also bought a shore house a few years ago that he hardly ever uses but also doesn't rent out, so I'm sure that's costing him a bundle. Not a week goes by that we don't get a box from Amazon, usually with DVDs that he has ordered. He buys every movie he wants to see. He must own hundreds at this point. He leases a new car every 2 years. I've been with him 7 years and he is on his 4th car during that time (I'm still driving the same one I bought used in 1998). He graduated 4 years before me but is still repaying his student loans (I paid off mine over 2 years ago). He thinks nothing of buying a new computer when there is nothing wrong with the old one. Same for office furniture. One day he came in and had bought all new desk chairs (5 of them) for the office just because he got a "good deal" somewhere. Oh, he also hasn't paid his 2006 taxes yet and admitted today that the penalties are piling up by the minute.

Being someone who is frugal and very much in control of my finances, this just drives me nuts.
__________________
Steve

* Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
* Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
* There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:05 AM
QueenOphelia's Avatar
QueenOphelia QueenOphelia is offline
$ Saving HS Freshman
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: NYC
Posts: 104
Points: 850.00
Donate
Default

Some people just spend every penny they have without regard for the future. He also might make alot more than you realize and all the things he buys don't make a dent in his finances.

Then again, he might be a teetering on the financial edge of disaster.
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:20 AM
disneysteve's Avatar
disneysteve disneysteve is offline
$ Saving Guru
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 16,311
Last Blog Entry: March 2012 Survey Income
Points: 99411.30
Donate
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by QueenOphelia View Post
Some people just spend every penny they have without regard for the future. He also might make alot more than you realize and all the things he buys don't make a dent in his finances.
He is the first type - spends every penny. Over the years, we've discussed finances numerous times pretty candidly. We've talked about retirement savings and he's said he has very little set aside. Like I said, he is still repaying student loans that totaled about the same as mine and he's been out 4 years longer than me. One big strike against him, besides his spending habits, is that he is divorced. His wife was very high maintenance and still costs him a fortune so I know that doesn't help, but overall he is his own worst enemy.
__________________
Steve

* Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
* Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
* There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:22 AM
SnoopyCool's Avatar
SnoopyCool SnoopyCool is offline
$ Saving College Freshman
 
Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 534
Last Blog Entry: 8 is Great
Points: 2970.00
Donate
Default

My husband's employer is like this. They're a small site excavation company (around 50 employees) and the owners are a married couple, with the wife the legal owner so that they can take advantage of all kinds of perks for being owned by a woman.

Anyway, she calls most of the shots, so they've moved into a HUGE office that they don't need. Ms. Owner leased all of her office help new Mercedes to drive (it was a great deal!). They take the entire company on a cruise every year during the holidays (looks like they can't afford to do it this year, though). They, themselves, just bought a huge house in a very influential neighborhood last year, and Mr. Owner told my husband that his mortgage is $10,000 per month! *gasp*

It makes my husband slightly worried because they're possibly putting the company at risk. He's also a little ticked because they've promised him a company truck for over a year now, while all the office staff got new cars to drive from home to work and back (DH needs the truck to haul stuff, drive from job to job, etc.). I just try to remind him to be happy with his situation and focus on the important things in life (but let's hope these people don't cause him to lose a job!). On a positive note, they have picked up several jobs and things are looking great for the time being.
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:27 AM
scfr scfr is offline
$ Saving College Junior
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 1,165
Last Blog Entry: Stepping Away
Points: 8053.00
Donate
Default

I am my own boss, so no, it's not a problem.

But disneysteve, if I were in your shoes, I'd definitely keep my finger on the pulse of that guy's finances and have a backup plan just in case you need to jump ship.
Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:30 AM
Hedy Hedy is offline
$ Saving Jr. High Schooler
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 93
Points: 607.00
Donate
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by disneysteve View Post
He is the first type - spends every penny. Over the years, we've discussed finances numerous times pretty candidly. We've talked about retirement savings and he's said he has very little set aside. Like I said, he is still repaying student loans that totaled about the same as mine and he's been out 4 years longer than me. One big strike against him, besides his spending habits, is that he is divorced. His wife was very high maintenance and still costs him a fortune so I know that doesn't help, but overall he is his own worst enemy.
Does this effect your paycheck at all? I'd just think someone who's that bad with personal money might have it spill over to his professional accounts.
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:33 AM
LuxLiving's Avatar
LuxLiving LuxLiving is offline
$ Saving College Senior
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: MidSouth
Posts: 2,427
Last Blog Entry: Grow Your Own! ...no, not that, THiS...
Points: 20975.90
Donate
Default

Have you had a frank conversation with him that you are worried about his future?
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:40 AM
Staceyy Staceyy is offline
$ Saving HS Sophomore
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 169
Points: 1425.10
Donate
Default

I'd start looking for a new job!
Reply With Quote
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 08:50 AM
disneysteve's Avatar
disneysteve disneysteve is offline
$ Saving Guru
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 16,311
Last Blog Entry: March 2012 Survey Income
Points: 99411.30
Donate
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hedy View Post
Does this effect your paycheck at all? I'd just think someone who's that bad with personal money might have it spill over to his professional accounts.
No. In 7 years, I've never seen any indication that it is threatening the business. He's been in practice for 18 years, most of those running his own place. He always puts the needs to the practice first. No bounced or late paychecks or anything like that. Nothing in collections, etc.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Staceyy View Post
I'd start looking for a new job!
I really don't see a need for that. The job has been stable and I really don't see any reason to think that will change. If the situation ever arises that the practice is in trouble, I could always make him an offer to buy him out and hire him back as an employee. My finances are in very good shape and I'd have no trouble doing that.

On the plus side, he does own our office building and the shore house, both with a fair amount of equity, so he has those assets to fall back on. He is thinking about selling the shore home since he doesn't use it much and could put those proceeds toward firming up his other financial needs.
__________________
Steve

* Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
* Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
* There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.
Reply With Quote
  #10 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 09:05 AM
LuxLiving's Avatar
LuxLiving LuxLiving is offline
$ Saving College Senior
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: MidSouth
Posts: 2,427
Last Blog Entry: Grow Your Own! ...no, not that, THiS...
Points: 20975.90
Donate
Default

I'd negotiate & offer to act as his contractor (for a fee) to get the 2nd story completed and to then obtain a small percentage of any future rents. Also to see if you can act as a broker to get him a renter for both office & his shore house. Again w/a flat fee for the arrangment and a percentage of rental fees!
Reply With Quote
  #11 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 09:15 AM
scfr scfr is offline
$ Saving College Junior
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 1,165
Last Blog Entry: Stepping Away
Points: 8053.00
Donate
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by LuxLiving View Post
I'd negotiate & offer to act as his contractor (for a fee) to get the 2nd story completed and to then obtain a small percentage of any future rents. Also to see if you can act as a broker to get him a renter for both office & his shore house. Again w/a flat fee for the arrangment and a percentage of rental fees!
What an incredible idea, Lux!!!
Reply With Quote
  #12 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 10:28 AM
DebbieL DebbieL is offline
$ Saving College Sophomore
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Victoria, BC
Posts: 998
Points: 5255.00
Donate
Default

Steve, I can understand how it would drive a person nuts when someone is living the opposite of everything you believe in. It is amazing how many otherwise smart (and obviously he's no idiot if he's a doctor with his own practice) people are financially stupid. I honestly don't care how my boss handles his own finances. I know he carries thousands of dollars on his Visa that he could just pay and stop paying hundreds in interest every month, but it's not my problem. He makes great money and has other investments (and some I don't know about I'm sure). He also owns a little strip mall type thing with 6 or 7 retail renters. He isn't broke, and beyond that I really don't care how he runs his finances.

I am the bookkeeper, so I know all the office's bills are paid, every staff member is paid on time, etc. There is no danger to the business or my job. If I were advising him personally, I would tell him not to carry balances on his credit cards, but I'm not so I don't care. He also replaces his vehicle every 4 years or so (always with flashy new cars - he's in a Jag right now). He and his wife spend a lot on dining out and travel too. None of my business.
Reply With Quote
  #13 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 11:29 AM
moneybags moneybags is offline
$ Saving HS Senior
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 343
Points: 1875.00
Donate
Default

I'm more worried about the relatives I have like this. They may come knocking on my door in the future while I am enjoying my well planned retirement.
Reply With Quote
  #14 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 12:42 PM
Broken Arrow Broken Arrow is offline
Foot in mouth diseased
 
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 4,657
Last Blog Entry: CR-48
Points: 25090.40
Donate
Default

Unfortunately, all of my bosses are like that. Except possibly for one, but I've never discussed money with him before, so I am not sure.
Reply With Quote
  #15 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 12:55 PM
librarylady librarylady is offline
$ Saving Third Grader
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Texas
Posts: 15
Last Blog Entry: DH home from Tennessee
Points: 135.00
Donate
Default

Oh yes, I do have a boss who is lousy with money. Try the state of Texas. Ha!
Reply With Quote
  #16 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 12:59 PM
Saving in So Cal Saving in So Cal is offline
$ Saving HS Sophomore
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 163
Points: 1943.00
Donate
Default

I know very few people that are in control of the finances the same way people here are. I worry for the ones that are not in control, but it doesn't drive me nuts because I was once one of them. We each get our own "wake up call." When he gets his, he's going to be really thankful to have you as a resource. I would be.
Reply With Quote
  #17 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 01:28 PM
fairy74's Avatar
fairy74 fairy74 is offline
$ Saving College Freshman
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Lompoc, CA
Posts: 618
Last Blog Entry: Have not been on in forever
Points: 3476.80
Donate
Default

Yes, my boss could be your bosses twin...it's frankly a little scary...he likes to complain about his lack of liquid money, I finally told him I didn't want to hear about it anymore because I have seen how much money he pours into landscaping projects (half finished) building a granny unit to his home (half finished), eating out every single meal, etc...He showed me the figures once like he was proud of them, from then on anytime he starts grumbling about how the firm doesn't have more money I remind him that he should check his spending sheet that the bookkeeper prepares for him every month. The weird part is supposedly (20 years ago) he was extremely frugal????
Reply With Quote
  #18 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 01:29 PM
Scanner Scanner is offline
$ Saving Post Graduate
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,679
Points: 15988.60
Donate
Default

DisneySteve,

I have floated a theory around at other discussion forums that this is part of the health care crisis - doctors (no one group in particular - MD's, DO's, DDS's, DC's) flaunting their wealth.

When people see this, they think all doctors are rolling in it, why should I worry about what he's paid, etc. and then when it comes time for reform that protects the physician, how can you possibly enlist the psyche of Joe Average?

I mean, do you think Joe Average will care if Medicare cuts your practice reimbursement by 20% - they just think, "Oh, I feel so sorry for him. . .he'll have to give up one of his homes. . ."

What do you think of my theory? It doesn't explain everything wrong with health care but just how in some ways doctors contribute to the American health care debacle.

I have always maintained (with some controversey among my DC colleagues) that being a doctor should only lead to an upper middle class lifestyle, which it sounds like you lead. I think part of the American health care problem, and only part of it, is that many people get into medicine thinking it was a path to riches and that has partially stressed the system.
Reply With Quote
  #19 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 01:42 PM
Ima saver's Avatar
Ima saver Ima saver is offline
$ Saving College Dept. Head
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: North Georgia
Posts: 8,056
Last Blog Entry: Graduation day!
Points: 96199.40
Donate
Default

I had bosses like that. They owned a new restaurant. But they kept blowing the money that they were making . I did the bookkeeping and the payroll. I got calls about unpaid bills all the time and I tried to talk to them about the problem, but they would not listen to me. They finally lost the restaurant.(I quit long before that happened)
Reply With Quote
  #20 (permalink)  
Old 06-14-2007, 02:31 PM
DebbieL DebbieL is offline
$ Saving College Sophomore
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Victoria, BC
Posts: 998
Points: 5255.00
Donate
Default

I really like your post Scanner. And yes, I think you nailed the public opinion about doctor's wages. I do think that with all the required schooling they should make a really good living, but it seems that some of them go way overboard or are in it for the wrong reasons. Caring about people should be the top reason, IMO. I don't begrudge doctor's making a good living, but many seem so rich it is a bit hard for the general public to feel too sorry for them.
Reply With Quote
Reply



Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC6 © 2006, Crawlability, Inc.

Copyright © 2012 SavingAdvice.com. All Rights Reserved.