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Originally Posted by bjl584
Usually when my cell phone screan comes up as "unknown" or "restricted" I won't answer. I just don't like to answer those calls for some reason. I figure if it's legitimate or if it's important, then they will leave a message. Then, I can just call them back.
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I do exactly this.
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Originally Posted by jpg7n16
If you're a real person, you can leave a message. I'll call you back.
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Yup. I'll call you back in about 30 seconds if you're a real person with whom I would like to speak.
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Originally Posted by disneysteve
Even for people who are in my contact list, they may not always call from the same phone. Maybe a friend will call me from his office and I only have his home number in my contacts. Or an office has multiple phone lines (we have 5 at my office) and I only have the primary line programmed in. There are any number of reasons why an unknown phone number could pop up on my caller id.
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You haven't really addressed your issue with the "immediately return any actual important call" technique. That seems to be the norm. If my phone range three times in a row from any number -- listed or not -- I would answer it immediately. So many people I know don't always answer their phones that if I call and DON'T leave a message, I'll text them that they do or don't need to call me back, just so that they don't see a "missed call" with my number and worry if it's something important, but they also don't have to even go to the trouble of listening to a message I might have left.
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Originally Posted by disneysteve
Why would you feel the need to be especially polite to someone who was wasting your time? When we get these calls, I say, "Sorry. I'm not interested." And then I hang up. Most times, that probably takes less than 15 seconds.
I guess I just don't see that as such an inconvenience. In fact, I'd rather answer the phone on the first ring and deal with it than listen to the phone ring 4 times before the machine picks up and then listen to the caller leaving a message (or listen to the recorded message playing).
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I get a lot of calls from my undergrad and graduate schools seeking donations. They are usually nice enough kids who are volunteering to "chat" with alums and then ask us for money. I hate to cut the kids off since they're not bad kids and they aren't professional telemarketers, but I also have a very specific donation schema and their phone call isn't going to sway me one way or the other.
And as far as the "listening to the phone ring" thing, it's easy with my cell to hit the "ignore" button and then the phone is silent until 30 seconds later when I get a chime that says I've got a new voicemail. Or no chime, and I don't have to worry about it!