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BA - Thanks for your response, and yes, be happy you've dodged the bullet on these problems.

Lynclarke - Thanks for sharing. I'll contact you off-line.

Lux - I tried to PM or email you but without success. Please PM or email me.

I am very careful to protect the privacy of my interviewees. I change all identifying details such as names, places, jobs, etc. If your original story involves your daughter, I might change it to your two sons. Your older brother may become your younger sister. The end product is much more anonymous than a lot of entries on the blogs or the forums!