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Originally Posted by cschin4
Yes, you can go the COD route, email the cost, etc. But, really, what will that accomplish other than keep you as a pawn in this 'relationship" that you no longer want and you said was hurtful. You can hold onto it, wait until you "get payment" or whatever. More than likely this person doesn't even really care about it if it has been over a year. How much would it cost to ship this? A few dollars, so what? You probably spend that on a cup of coffee. Move on.
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Well the problem is that I currently do not have any adress for her. She didn't leave any when she left (she was moving in with a friend and that was a temporary situation). I tried to search on the Website of the University she was supposed to study at with no sucess. I googled her with no sucess whatsoever.
So the item (a piece of art) is not so much as stake, as the fact that I would have to renew the whole conversation back (after... well over a year). I still have the same phone number & email, if she would have wished to contact me she could have done it easily.
Even in the email were she said: "ship it I will pay you back", she didn't give her adress (?!?!?!). Partly why I didn't send it at that time (what was she thinking?).
So as it as been a year, should I let sleeping dog lie and get rid of that thing one way or another. Or do I have an obligation to contact her and make the effort to send it wether it is at my expense or not? Or am I just worrying too much about little meaningless details?